The symbolic meaning of wounds
03/04/2023
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We also present the DSSI Training (Dream Interpretation, Signs, Symbols), a unique program for learning to interpret dreams on a daily basis, with weekly follow-up in an online portal. This training represents the world reference in the field of dream interpretation, and our research is followed by psychologists, doctors, psychiatrists and therapists around the world.
When we understand the Symbolic Language, we enter a new reality: we understand the symbols that our dreams present to us every night, but we can also decode the symbols present in our daily lives. In fact, everything we experience during the day can be analyzed as a dream. Thus, when we study the Symbolic Language, we can not only understand ourselves better from the inside, but also learn to decode our external life with a new dimension...
In this conference, discover 14 exceptional sharings on various and multi-dimensional topics, presented by experts of the Symbolic language and the interpretation of dreams. Enter the heart of the Knowledge of dreams and symbols, with these inspiring and instructive real-life testimonies...
Conference Chapters:
0:00 – Introduction by Kaya
3:00 – Kaya | Presentation of the DSSI Training
27:00 – Martine | When the veil of illusions lifts
31:23 – Kasara | I still dream about my ex
36:30 – Anthony | This code that changes everything
43:17 – Eloi | A dressed cat
46:40 - Kaya | Studies and Research of the UCM Center
50:30 - Christiane | Sunflowers turned towards the light
1:00:19 - Kaya | Sharing
1:05:43 - Haritha | Spiritual Illusions
1:10:22 - Kaya | Sharing
1:12:30 – Santhosh | Decoding our loved ones with discernment
1:16:11 - Geoffrey | A dream to know how to intervene
1:22:12 – Ân | Healing Mental Issues
1:28:13 – Linh | The reflection of Change
1:32:46 – Alexis | Secret Conversation
1:37:40 – Emeline | The Butterfly Child
1:47:04 – Kaya | Conclusion & Credits
Why does the law of resonance, when properly understood and applied, allow us to take great steps in our evolution? This article helps us understand the fundamental aspects related to the principles of resonance, and how it can serve as a basis for evolution in our daily lives.
Imagine, we can sometimes get angry, upset or impatient in certain situations... we can lose a lot of energy when we let out our frustrations and discontentment... It's normal! you might say... The other person hurt me... or insulted me... or made decisions that went against me, he even abused me...
How to get out of a role of victim, frustration or conflict (internal or external), thanks to the law of resonance?
For this, it is enough to understand this law and its application in terms of emotions and memories at the human level, and not only to see it at the concrete level, between a very high-pitched sound and a crystal glass that breaks for example.
Let's take a concrete situation: according to the definition, if I have a certain vibration, a certain emotional frequency inside me, then by resonance, a person who will have the same vibratory frequency will enter in resonance with me... For example, if I am friends with a person who represents joy, kindness, benevolence, it is because I too am able to manifest these qualities, and by resonance, I attract people who vibrate at these frequencies of joy, kindness and benevolence.
However, a law being a law, one cannot say that it works "from time to time" or "just about"... A law, especially when it is a fundamental principle of the Universe, is absolute. Also, it requires a lot of humility and the ability to question oneself when one has to apply a law in a more negative context than the one presented above.
So, when my neighbor annoys me, for example, or if a member of my family is disrespectful and that saddens me, or hurts me, it is time to apply the law of resonance, because it can help us...
According to the principles of this law, we must be able to recognize that we will vibrate at a frequency of conflict, disrespect, aggression, anger, or any other negative emotion that may emerge from a situation that disturbs us.
However, we do not want conflict, we seek the good... Or we have been betrayed by someone, and we say to ourselves that we would never have committed such an act, so the law of resonance does not apply... or we wonder if it only works in one direction, or only to a certain percentage...
Even when he feels that the other person bears most of the responsibility for the conflict or the problem (and this can indeed be the case), a being on a deep journey, who is working on himself, remembers that the law of resonance exists, and that if he attracted such a situation, it is because he had something to understand... it is because memories vibrated at the same frequency as the situation or the person who poses a problem in his life...
Thus, we understand that we are always angry at aspects of ourselves that we have not yet resolved, and that the other person, as long as he or she disturbs us or triggers negative emotions or thoughts in us, represents a part of ourselves, to a certain percentage.
Because yes, a person who has been cheated on, even though he or she has always been faithful, has resonances with infidelity. How is this possible? Infidelity must be understood in terms of unconscious memories at that time, more subtle, where the person may have accumulated needs of all kinds but never manifested them concretely for example... She may have sometimes nurtured desires, thoughts and emotions that did not respect her commitments or values, and this creates a form of infidelity...
Or they may have been too kind, too stimulating of their spouse's needs at times... This too creates a form of infidelity, because by being too kind, too gentle, by accepting or endorsing almost everything, it will generate codes that the person is too accessible, that it is too easy with them and will lead to infidelity in the other.
Or, the person may have closed himself or herself off from the other person, having difficulty being close to his or her spouse in every way, and this too, on some level, represents a lack of fidelity to the values of the couple.
It is the same with a situation with a colleague for example, or a neighbor, or a family member who gets on our nerves. We could believe that it is his fault, because it is him who shouts, or insults, or speaks badly... But nevertheless, the law of resonance is there... When we know it, we can no longer put ourselves in the position of victim...
We tell ourselves that we don't shout, we don't speak badly to others, we don't insult anyone... We ask ourselves why, but why do I attract this when I am a good person?
If we look deep inside ourselves for the times when we may have, in the past, communicated too intensely, or refused to communicate, because we kept too much inside ourselves... if we look in our thoughts, in our heart, to see if sometimes we are not criticizing or sending arrows to the other, at a more subtle level... Only by looking in our negative memories can we truly reprogram our frequencies that resonate with negativity and attract it.
The awareness of the memories shown in dreams, their symbolic understanding and the ability to observe and decode the way dreams manifest themselves in our daily lives, as well as the study of signs, the practice of mantras and meditation, are real keys to our evolution. With time, by becoming aware of our memories, our resonances, and their influences on our inner energy and our behaviors, we can progressively change in depth and reprogram our old ways of functioning.
The different examples above finally lead us to realize that what we attract is what we are, in terms of percentages, according to our degree of disturbance. Because yes, one day, a person can hurt us, insult us, set a trap for us, betray us, and we are no longer disturbed, we no longer feel like counter-attacking, nor taking revenge, nor blaming them...
At that moment, we understand that the other is a part of us, we reprogram ourselves, and we know that we can end the cycles that led us to attract the same types of problems...
Imagine... the law of resonance is like a compass of evolution... it leads us to understand where we come from, what we can do, and in which direction we can go... because when we no longer have negative resonance, we make better choices, we make better decisions, and we follow a path that is always healthier and more beneficial for our evolution, and that of others around us...
What would it mean to dream of a volcanic eruption, an exploding bomb, or a tsunami that sweeps away everything in its path?
Could it be that I am holding back emotions that can no longer be contained?
Could these symbols materialize in real life... And what can be done to prevent this from happening?
Emotions are powerful in both positive and negative ways. Sometimes it seems as if they could sweep away everything in their path like an impetuous torrent, without being able to stop them. They could make us lose control of ourselves, like a tsunami, with all the consequences that this implies. For example, anger can turn into violence; joy and spontaneity can lead us to be too exuberant at times.
We could therefore be afraid of the extent of our emotions because we know only too well their power and, as a result, we will also be afraid of those of others. We can take as an example the reactions of some people in a tense social context, such as a demonstration which degenerates, where even a person with no history of violence may engage in violent behavior that they have never exhibited before. This is the "I don't know what came over me... I picked up a rock and threw it at a window to break it..." It's a very well-known phenomenon that the influence of a group, a crowd, the collective, can have on an individual and lead them down a path they might not have gone down on their own.
This is why some people will systematically avoid any type of gathering, places where there will be a lot of people, because they fear the powerful emotional reactions of the crowds and they will avoid confronting them, also because they fear their own reactions. We have already seen too much, for example in soccer stadiums, violence between fans that creates uncontrolled crowd movements causing many victims. Emotion generates an impulse, that is to say the passage to action when the memories emerge, or when the needs become uncontrollable.
When we act irrationally, on a "whim" or a "whim", we connect to all the memories where we lived a situation that we hated, repressed, or where we were afraid, afraid for ourselves or for the other person... In short, a situation where we felt potentially in danger... and the emotions will come to blur our reason, our common sense. We often use expressions like "Let's not get carried away" or "Let's keep a cool head" to symbolize the right attitude to adopt in order not to be trapped by the emotional intensity.
The fact of repressing one's emotions can work for a while, but the deep nature of emotions is meant to be expressed. So one day or another, the accumulated pressure makes the dam (or other system put in place to retain emotions) break, and then we will experience consequences in our body, our mind, because this will be their only way out ... We could become depressed, have physiological or psychological manifestations, develop diseases, etc. ... Hence the importance of learning to manage our emotions and not to create emotional restraints.
To be able to act accordingly, it is important to discern how we feel. To do this, you must know how to listen to your emotions without repressing them. Thus, we will be able to reconnect deeply with ourselves and find our capacity to interact intelligently, to be in empathy with others, far from the cold indifference that can sometimes develop when emotions are repressed for a long time, where we gradually die out instead of feeling alive; because emotions are simply life, and repressing emotions is denying it.
Recognizing one's emotions means being emotionally intelligent, that is, being able to "express, understand and manage one's own emotions and to perceive and interpret those of others". Emotional intelligence is an essential component of mental health. It plays a very important role in self-awareness and the qualitý of relationships with others.
We are lucky to be able to feel, express and live our emotions. They allow us to adapt, to preserve ourselves, to make choices. They influence our behavior. If we knew how to naturally welcome our emotions and recognize those of others, we would have far fewer problems in our relationships and in society in general.
Our emotional energies are an unlimited source of power, they are the engine of our evolution. Knowing how to manage them means being able to use their tremendous potential to set ourselves in motion, to motivate, to inspire, to create... in short, to evolve.
It is said that we are made of flesh and blood, and dust... but we are composed of more than 60 % of water. Certainly, we are Homo Sapiens (thinking, wise man), but we are mainly emotional beings, considering our biological, chemical composition. It would therefore have been more appropriate for our species to be called Homo Motius (emotional man) instead of Homo Sapiens, or Homo Sapiens Motius, which is perhaps a new stage in human evolution.
Neuroscience teaches us that we feel before we think. Emotions are at the very heart of our life; they have accompanied the evolution of the human being. It is thanks to them that we have survived, that we have been able to develop because they are reactions that allow us to adapt to the events of daily life, whatever they are, and also to transform ourselves in the long term. Emotional experiences are in fact learning about oneself and about relationships with others. Knowing how to recognize them, name them, understand them, is to take back our power over them instead of letting them sometimes "carry us away", or trying to repress them in a corner of our unconscious.
Because we cry when we are sad, or when we are in pain... but also when we laugh. We can feel very hot and sweaty under an intense emotion, or feel frozen, paralyzed by fear. Our emotional state is like water that moves within us, that changes and can take on several different states in its manifestation depending on what we are experiencing. It is a bit like our inner weather.
Our emotional state can resemble the calm water of a beautiful lake when we are serene, or a rough sea when we are disturbed, or even a tsunami that breaks on the horizon when we can no longer hold back our emotions... Or it can bubble up like a pressure cooker whose lid has been desperately tightened to the bottom, and then spurt out of control! Like the magma of a volcano that suddenly awakens when we thought it was extinguished, a sign of intense anger from repressing in our unconscious everything we don't want to (or can't) see or express.
An emotion provokes an inner movement, it makes you move inside, and sometimes it will also bring an external movement that you will express if it is positive, and that you will try to retain, to control if it is negative... and sometimes you will even "freeze" everything so as not to feel the possible consequences.
Emotion comes from the Latin "motere" which means "to move", and the prefix "é" which indicates a movement from the inside to the outside, thus a tendency to act concretely. From there also comes the word "motor". Emotions are therefore by definition energies that push us to act, to set us in motion; they will give us an impulse, motivate us.
This is when everything is going well, because if the so-called "positive" emotions can put us into action with a beautiful, just energy, there are also "negative" emotions that can make us act impulsively, reactively and not always very right ... Even slowing us down, to the point of blocking us in our manifestation.
A person always reacts in a way determined by his or her emotional state. Thus, despite the universality of an emotion, its expression will vary according to each individual. It is normal, we do not all have the same history, the same emotional experiences. The emotion is thus associated with the personality and especially with the memories recorded in the unconscious of each one.
Emotions are spontaneous reactions to a given situation.
They can cause physical manifestations (pallor, blushing, agitation, increased heart rate and breathing rate, sweating, etc.) and psychological manifestations (thoughts, mood changes, etc.) that are temporary. Joy, surprise, fear, anger are examples.
Feelings represent a more lasting emotional state that evolves over time. Thus feelings (such as love, hate, trust, distrust, gratitude, etc.) are born, grow and sometimes change, or even disappear.
Although they are different, emotions and feelings are intimately linked. Feelings cause all kinds of emotions and, conversely, emotions can generate feelings. For example, a feeling of joy can spontaneously generate tears (emotion). If a child was frightened (emotion) when the neighbor's dog barked loudly at him, he might later develop a feeling of fear at the mere sight of a dog. This feeling may last over time, or it may change or even disappear as the child develops.
It is therefore important to understand the emotions that we feel before moving, because this is how our personality will express itself and also develop. We grew up in a kind of emotional "bath" with our parents, our entourage, at school, etc... and this will color our everyday life, in positive as well as in negative.
Our emotions and their level of expression come from our different learning experiences and emotional experiences that we have recorded deep within us. It is necessary to study them to know how to identify them, name them and go back to the memories at their origin in order to be able to transform and reprogram those that we no longer wish to manifest.
This requires an inner worker to transform the unconscious memories, the resonances that make us live this or that situation in our life, and therefore experience emotions related to these experiences.
It is a whole inner re-education to live our emotions well and not to be afraid of them anymore, to manifest this great potential, this great force of inspiring motivation which makes us progress on all levels.
How many times have you heard in a conversation, in a movie or even in a hallway conversation that a dream is "just a dream"?
What if this kind of pre-manufactured answer, said in semi-automatic mode to reassure the other person (and quickly change the subject because it becomes uncomfortable) was that ultimately, we struck the first blow and triggered a real domino effect under the surface? The kind that alters life opportunities or even worse, pushes the dust deeper under the carpet?
If a dream, no matter which one, was in fact the keystone to be identified and thus the cascading collapses could be changed, the wounds healed and the hopes founded, would it still be "just a dream"? Would you be willing to look beyond the symbols and to understand the code that governs this fantastic and sometimes even terrifying universe?
It is hard at first, as a human being, to be interested in an intangible world, which seems 100% virtual and without any visible relation of cause and effect. Then, on the other hand, the technology and science that is being developed is grandiose, flourishing with brilliant and avant-garde ideas, even touching the boundaries of the physical and metaphysical worlds. Pushing the limits to go from an idea, a dream, to a reality.
The possibilities and intelligence are there more than ever, but why then are our dreams perceived as "just a dream"? When an idea, just as intangible as a dream, can give birth to a technological revolution and change the quality of life of humanity.
Answering "it's just a dream" would become, in a way, an attempt to reassure ourselves about something that our senses are not yet able to identify and understand. We can see to what extent our societies tend to value the external world in relation to success, to personal accomplishment and, simultaneously, all our main senses are turned towards this environment to identify it, to understand it and ultimately to survive.
Thus, we see, we taste, we smell, we touch and we hear. It's simple, innate, and it's effective. It works without us even thinking about it. We then naturally maintain ourselves in a mode of action and reaction that supports a certain sense of seeking functionality of things, clarity and advancement.
These perceptions are undoubtedly invaluable. They create the harmony to manifest well. Remove one of them and a handicap appears. Each of these extraordinary sensors makes us into real computers, managing an extraordinary amount of information in just a few seconds.
But, in the long run, this innate nature could also become an operating bias if not taken further. Something as extraordinary as our senses could, by omission and lack of will, become a real limitation for our evolution. If we see the same roads, if we hear the same atmospheres, if we smell and taste the same ingredients and if we touch the same sensation, then, maybe in the end we live in closed circuit… ?
There is the external world, the one that our senses have always known, and there is the internal world, the one that requires us to do an update of our senses. The latter continuously transmits an influx of information in resonance with what is perceived from the outside. In all situations and discussions, we inevitably judge, evaluate, are happy, content or even angry, impatient or sad. We may envy, begrudge or even reject, simply because of what we feel inside, within us, and by the echo transmitted from our senses.
Finally, we can say that we make decisions about invisible things. Things that cannot be seen, touched, heard or tasted. That's where it gets really interesting, that's where you can say that metaphysics really influences the physics of things.
Thus, we can say of this world - which animates the life in us, programs the first lines of our thoughts, develops our emotions and then triggers our behaviors - that it "codes" who we are, our personality, it's our Source Code. Where we have an advantage is that, unlike in the real world, we don't need to be a senior developer to go and look at the logs (registers displaying information about the good or bad functioning of a code → very useful) of our consciousness.
This code is installed in us, which can create slowdowns as well as accelerations, wow ???? as well as ARGH!!!????, and ultimately it's up to us to choose whether we decide to update it or not. To know if we want to stay on a version of the code that can limit our possibilities, or multiply them by adding knowledge to our perceptions.
Have you ever heard of the metaverse? These 100% fictional and multi-dimensional universes in full expansion, where you can own a piece of land, attend a play or even go shopping, are the perfect metaphor for dreams. They are virtual and yet connected to reality, they are there and yet if you don't care about them they continue to exist.
You can see all kinds of colors (in every sense of the word) and everyone can move around with an avatar that represents them. That means if you decide to be a lion with a DJ helmet and a jet pack on your back, you can do it.
In short, I won't go into details because it is not the purpose of this article, but take a look around, get information and you will see that we are at the borders of the world of dreams, with the pluses and minuses that this implies, of course.
So, when we dream at night, we visit our "dreamverse", that is to say the universe of our dreams, the one which we represents by the symbolism that is there. Indeed, each symbol that we see, no matter how it looks, becomes a sort of holographic projection of who we are and a certain percentage of our personality.
In fact, if we dream about a car whose brakes don't work, a cat that is not happy, our father who hugs us or a colleague who helps us, all these represent strengths and weaknesses that we carry within us.
When we have beautiful dreams, we should see them as an encouragement to everything we do constructively in our lives and to continue to manifest ourselves well with others. We can say that it is a positive resonance towards our senses.
However, because of this aforementioned predisposition to go outward, there is often an unconscious or repressed buildup that leads more to receiving less pleasant dreams or even nightmares. One of the keys I invite you to try is to see them more as a warning signal on your dashboard when you are driving. You only stop if it's the red light! So, most of the time you are able to stay operational while being aware of the parameters that need to be corrected.
Any dream remains important to identify in order to be able to analyze it and avoid the famous domino effect. We know that the key to any problem resolution, whether in management, aeronautics or web development, is the quality of the identification. The more accurate and precise our identification is, the better we will be able to apply a relevant and adequate solution in reaction, without dramatizing or exaggerating the magnitude of the problem in question.
If you want to begin this identification process yourself, here are some key points to help you. No matter if you are a novice or an expert in dream analysis, these steps are fundamental and it is always a good thing!
First steps of identification
If we identify that the dream is negative, it indicates forces (thoughts, emotions, behaviors) that need to be reprogrammed and transformed to avoid an increase in problems in this area. In the same way, in computer science, if a bug appears and is not solved, it tends to amplify itself and affect other areas of use. In other words, the sooner the better!
"Okay, but the antidote is what?" You will tell me. In fact, the resolution of a situation perceived in the dream will depend on your ability to monitor these forces identified in the dream. To put it simply, if you have identified impatience because of the symbol of your brother-in-law, George, present in the dream, then you need to keep a closer eye on this fragment of your behavior, to prevent it from playing tricks on you in your day-to-day exchanges and projects.
Your log file tells you that you have a line of code like "George" that could cause you to be overly impatient or impulsive right now if a situation X or Y were to resonate with that line. So the more you are able to do global and background self-monitoring, (be careful, don't go extreme with this either! Practice makes things easier with time and much less robotic than when you start to be alert to those forces within you), the easier it becomes to identify the triggering moment of your inner George and to catch up.
But be careful! Your real brother-in-law, George, in real life, has nothing to do with your dream. In fact, he becomes a symbol that your consciousness knows to illustrate certain angles of your personality. So don't rush to the phone to talk to him about the dream where he was impatient, you'll add another problem in the process ???? Finally, George also has extraordinary qualities and surely in another dream you will also discover his magnificent qualities in yourself.
By communicating with different CEOs, leaders and managers in this world, or just by being an actor observing the exchanges, one can quickly assess that the biggest source of difficulties at the heart of work and getting things done is human behavior.
The machine, the computer, does not complain, does not create gossip or hallway discussions. It does not aspire to the position of the other, nor does it dominate its employees or jealously guard its boss. If we bring more knowledge to solve the difficulties arising from the individual to the heart of a social and collective movement, we can really bring a new step in terms of work and life qualities.
In business, when you talk to Human Resources, you can very quickly see the magnitude of the potential damage caused by poor decisions based on impatience and impulsiveness (and more!). So many dominoes have been toppled by inner forces when you think about it...
Now imagine a work environment where everyone would arrive in the morning having received their own logs of their strengths and weaknesses, aspects potentially harmful to the relationship. Everyone having in mind their own "bug" to watch out for to avoid more problems.
The quality would literally be enhanced because everyone would have an interest in doing things right, while coming back to themselves according to their own resonances. Of course, this does not mean that everything would be perfect and rosy, but a new stage would be established without a doubt. And since all change takes time, if everyone starts with themselves, one dream at a time, we can say that one day, one dream, is no longer "just a dream".
During the day I love one man and at night I love another... Am I normal?
You were in his arms, you even felt his smell... You had forgotten about it... but at night you still remember it... And your dreams are so real that when you wake up you feel guilty... Your husband sleeping beside you... You feel embarrassed by these dreams that come back again and again...
In this article, find out why millions of people dream about their past relationships and what it really means.
However, for many it is clear that this relationship is over, but the fact remains that in dreams the past often resurfaces in surprising ways!
We all have a reservoir of memories and this reservoir defines us as a person. This reservoir defines our attractions, our disturbances, and even our way of loving...
Someone who has suffered in the past, suffered from having been betrayed for example, has recorded hundreds or even thousands of negative memories about love which will influence the way he or she will close his or her heart sometimes, for fear of suffering again.
And when our being "forgets" its sufferings, that it represses them for example, it then enters into a reservoir which one calls the unconscious. Where the data of who you are resides, of which you are not aware... And when this reservoir fills up - here in the context of negative memories - it can lead to depression. Because the "system" has built up too much pressure... Just as a couple that builds up too much frustration, unspoken words or anger, may eventually choose to separate.
We are all living computers that record positive and negative memories, every moment of our lives... And at night, through dreams, our consciousness dives into this unconscious reservoir to better understand ourselves, to avoid even more intense misfortunes sometimes.
If only you knew how many problems we can avoid in our lives through the science of dreaming... Human beings, it's absolute, must sooner or later learn to decode their consciousness and their memories to clean up inside themselves.
If you are haunted by the past, it means that your soul is looking for answers now... That you are ready to go further too... Learn to transform old negative memories into positive ones.
With this article, I wish to say to all those who are living a heartache and who look to the future and ask themselves: "Is it possible to love again?" Yes! I tell you, it is possible to love again... It is even possible to love better again... Like getting up after falling and moving forward better afterwards... But to achieve this, we sometimes have to clean up our inner computer... Like in our way of conceiving the presence of the other in our life.
And in this journey of repairing the "broken heart", dreams are really the key to open the doors of the memories within...
And with courage, in a dream, you can face the truth, go and see why you hurt, why this relationship failed, and especially what you can improve in yourself so that one day you will find love again under a new day... one day you will find love again under a better day... and also so that love will be synonymous with happy longevity...
Yes, it's possible that you still love him, often dreaming that you are in a relationship with your ex... But the more expert we become in analyzing our dreams, the more we understand that it's all a matter of "percentages" and "parts of oneself"... Let's start by explaining the percentage dynamic:
A beautiful dream or nightmare always represents percentages of our thoughts, emotions and or actions. This means that you can dream about a sadness that you carry within you, but it will only represent 3% of your current state... Or you can have the same dream but it will represent 40%... It all depends on your accumulation of memories and your ability to renew yourself.
Someone who is super jealous in love will also dream of jealousy situations sometimes... And if this person is super jealous their dream may represent 79% of their current personality... While someone else might get a similar dream and only have 0.8% of jealousy in terms of accumulation...
All this to explain that yes, if you are constantly dreaming about your ex, it is possible that you still love him or her, or that you still love what he or she represents for you... If he or she was rebellious for example, if that is what your ex represents for you, then you can understand that you are still attracted, not always but at times, to this force of rebellion, of countering others to get what you want, and sometimes of wanting too much to do things your way, etc.
We attract what we are, so your dreams show you that you are still a bit like your ex somewhere, often in the negative, because sometimes we have not finished learning from a situation, even when we have finished living it... We can still process several parameters in ourselves...
And living with someone, sharing as a couple is a very intimate experience... We often say: "I've got you under my skin" and this kind of expression is very graphic, but at the same time it symbolically means how much we share of ourselves and how much the other person can influence us, enter into us in terms of behavioral, memory and emotional influence.
Et si tu es super-ordonnée comme personne, mais tu as attiré un ex complètement désordonné, ça aussi ça veut dire quelque chose… La vie peut s’analyser exactement comme dans un rêve… Cela signifie qu’à quelque part, au fond de toi, tu es aussi un peu comme cela par moment ou dans certains contexte précis… Et tu peux aussi attirer en couple une personne qui ressemble à qui tu étais avant…. Hum… c’est super intéressant quand on y pense, la science des résonances…. 🙂
The other is always a part of you in the dream... Why? Because we visit our own consciousness at night, so you see how this symbol lives in you... Ok, stop! What does it all mean?
It means that if you dream about your ex, on a beach with a dog: all the symbols are a part of you: you are your ex, you are the beach, you are the dog and you are you... You visit yourself at night, you visit your own percentages of memories
Donc, il ne faut pas avoir peur de rêver à ses ex ! 🙂 Car ils sont en réalité une symbolique qui représente des facettes du passé qui existe encore en soi sous forme de symbole.
Sometimes you are too nice, sometimes romantic, sometimes too distant or dependent... Like this or that ex... And your dreams show you... Show different sides of you.
In short, dreaming about your ex means that certain percentages of what this person means to you are still there... Still sticking to you...
You can change your house, but still feel sad... It's not the concrete change that will change everything in you... So it's the same thing in a couple, you can change your spouse and still feel sad, not finding the real happiness... The one you shouldn't look for through the other one, the one you should find in yourself... Even if one day a happy and fused couple can really self-generate mutual & deep happiness...
When you dream that you are making love to your ex or you see yourself kissing him, what you have to be careful about is not to wake up thinking about him all day long, thinking that he is going to come back in your life or that he still loves you, because sometimes it can be only symbolic!
Even if premonitions exist, there are few contexts where it becomes a premonition, because millions of people dream about their ex and they don't all come back together (laughs)!
So it's important not to project and conceptualize a reunion, or get lost in the meanderings of the past... Because often you can dream about your ex and maybe he or she doesn't dream about you or doesn't share the same affinities, etc.
It is then necessary to be vigilant not to project on the outside, but rather to wonder about what this person represents for us because it is very interesting to understand it becomes a symbol in a dream equation, about oneself and about what we still have to finalize with regard to this old relationship.
Do you want to know the truth in all of this? The truth is that most people will change relationships too quickly. They finalize a relationship that has created a failure in their life and out of need, out of a search to fill the void, the lack, they will start a new relationship too quickly. Often without having taken the time to take stock, to make peace and to renew themselves as a person.
We cannot change relationships like we change pairs of shoes, because our unconscious is filled with memories with the person, memories that have been shared at an intimate level, at a much deeper level than we can imagine...
It takes time to take stock of your life when you choose to end a relationship and as most people do not take the time to go inward, to take stock of themselves, dreams remind us of what is still living in us in terms of memories... Dreams can bring back to the surface a difficult past, not digested, a fear of being cheated on, etc... Always to help you to improve yourself and eventually to free yourself from what still holds you back...
So, in the end, why dream about your ex ? To know yourself better... To understand these percentages of memories...
Because if you are still "connected" to him or her that you once loved, still connected even to 20%, in your heart, in your soul... This 20%, it prevents you from loving to 100% the person who is currently present in your life or the one who will come one day...
Hmm... So cleaning up our memories is interesting in the end, to one day find our full potential at 100%... To one day love at 100% ❤︎
At first glance, a dream may seem abstract, illogical, confusing. So how can a dream change a life? I imagine you've already had the experience of waking up and being confused after an intense dream. Sometimes the atmosphere of our dream can even "stick" to us and confuse us all day; we may even need 3-4 seconds to know where we are so powerful the inner journey was.
But what happens when we dream? How can we see things in a dream that we have never experienced in real life or even seen in a movie? How is it possible that a dream can have such a profound effect on our state of mind, even make us sweat, wake us up in fear or danger? Or to amaze us with surprising revelations, even premonitory ones?
The more we study dreams, the more we discover to what extent our consciousness and our unconscious are interconnected to our memories, to our life programs, which are not only linked to our experience, but also to others, and to the multiple dimensions of the Universe. The dream is an access to our inner computer, but also to what we could call the Skynet, the universal Internet.
The more we evolve with dreams, the more we discover that it can become like a search engine, a possibility to receive answers to our most intimate questions and most useful secrets. It reveals to us who we are and gradually leads us to have access to the mysteries of the Universe and the multi-dimensions that constitute it.
A dream can change our life because it basically allows us to identify our inner dysfunctions before they manifest themselves concretely, thus offering us the possibility to transform them and improve ourselves.
For understanding dreams we must know that the meaning of our existence is only to develop qualities, to become a better person, a better soul. Thus, through our multiple experiences and realities (and those of our dreams) we learn to live, to think, to love; we integrate lessons of wisdom that transform our choices, and modify our life directions.
Let's take the example of the symbol of the mother in a dream. First of all, it is important to know that a symbol can be as much positive as negative, depending on how it appears in the dream.
If we see that our mother in our dreams is kind, just, bright, in a positive context, then she represents a part of us that reveals how we take care of ourselves, as well as our emotional dimension and expression for ourselves and for others: our caring, protective and nurturing attitude on the inner level. It is important to know that we all (whether we are male or female) have the symbol of the mother within us. Negatively, the mother will represent difficulties to love oneself, to take care of others and oneself, etc.
A symbol must always be put into context within the dream and also according to the other symbols that present themselves. What takes the most time when studying the interpretation of dreams and symbols is to make the link between them. Namely, the mother, if she is in a context of origin (the childhood home for example), will indicate our memories and what we have experienced, that which has influenced us and which constitutes the foundation of our emotional state.
If all is well in the dream, then great. But if there are problems, then that old experience is a fundamental emotional code that will influence many aspects of who we are and our lives.
If our mother is in a social context of today in the dream, this will indicate if we take care of ourselves when we are with others, or if we forget ourselves completely and get lost in our social relationships.
Also, to properly interpret a dream, sometimes we add to this general symbolism the qualities or weaknesses of our mother, as we perceive them. For example, she may have been highly motivated, energetic in starting projects, loyal to her values; or she may have been too submissive, or a complicated, critical or controlling person.
So in a positive or negative (or half and half) dream, our unconscious will talk to us about this aspect of ourselves, our maternal dimension, loving or not, sometimes showing us healthy evolutions or things to change, which affect us, and can plague our current relationships.
The dream will tell us in what context we behave in this way towards ourselves, and towards others in our way of accompanying them, and above all where this behavior comes from originally, what created it.
By applying the symbolic language to our dreams, we can go back into our unconscious memories to do a cleansing, to reprogram ourselves, and not repeat cyclical patterns in spite of ourselves, such as a repetitive break-up of a couple in a strongly similar context, situations of harassment in our professional environment, a period of depression indicating an excess accumulated for a very long time, etc.
A dream can therefore allow us to to free ourselves from our negative memories, from our karma, by becoming aware of the causes of behaviors that have limited us and/or made us suffer for years.
A single dream, understood in depth, can completely change our way of thinking and being, our destiny, and allow us to move towards what is right for ourselves and for others.
Dreams are also a very advanced spiritual experience when we know how to interpret them and use them for the good of our evolution. For in a dream, unconscious memories that inhabit us are revealed to us... We are told about our ways of thinking, feeling and acting... Which are benevolent or harmful, which create joy or blockages. And this, in all spheres of our life, and in all planes of our being.
A dream can even explain to us why we are ill, and which memories have created our illness. Thanks to a dream, we can even anticipate the concrete manifestation of an illness, because by transforming the negative dynamics at the level of our deep concepts, we can change the programming of our body.
The dream also has a premonitory dimension, it can help us to orient ourselves in our life to make the right choices for ourselves and for others.
Using the dream to make major decisions in our lives, we can access the consequences of our choices. For example, we can ask ourselves before going to sleep, if it is right for our evolution to associate ourselves with a particular person professionally? We can receive a dream that shows us a deserted company with a feeling of emptiness, of sadness. In this case, the dreamer will know his destiny if he chooses this path... Because the dream gives access to a universal calculation of all the elements, memories, of oneself, of the other, and of our affinities, compatibilities or incompatibilities. We can thus receive all kinds of dreams to guide us, by learning to ask questions.
The answer received can also be profound, explaining that the dreamer must transform such and such a thing before it is possible, without necessarily telling us right away if it will work or not. The objective is always above all to develop qualities.
It is essential to remember this when working with and using dreams to ask questions. If you only use dreams as a crystal ball, in a selfish, overly materialistic way, you will very often be confused, as the first goal and ultimate objective is the development of qualities. With time, the more we work on ourselves, the more we cleanse our memories, the more precise the dreams are, and yes, they can clearly indicate a guidance on the concrete and material level.
To study one's dreams is also to develop a lot of humility, because they are to be analyzed by coming back to oneself, because a dream always speaks of the dreamer with total transparency.
Sometimes, at the beginning of the path, it happens that as they deepen their spirituality, their meditations and their reflections, some people become hard on themselves... They may even become too extreme in their principles and values; they may become prickly, critical of themselves or others, or even intolerant when they feel, for example, in adversity or with some who oppose their worldview...
But why? In this article, we present the main unconscious memories that influence us in our path, in our spirituality, which can make us hard, rigid with ourselves or others ... We will discover that it is not spirituality in itself that leads to becoming extreme, but our unconscious memories that deeply influence our way of walking on this spiritual path...
Contrary to what most people think, being spiritual is not simply praying or practicing a particular ritual; being spiritual is being qualitative in everything we do... Because spirituality is a path of evolution, of improvement that can welcome all those who wish to know themselves and better understand the deep meaning of life, and this, whatever the tradition, religion, etc.
Even if many will marry religion & spirituality together, being spiritual is not dependent on a religious practice, on the contrary, it is a philosophy, a way of living in connection with the multiple dimensions of life. It is also a search for a deeper understanding of what is lived... A quest for meaning in the "commute-work-sleep"... A way to try to understand life and to communicate more deeply with it, with oneself...
And to be spiritual, in reality, is to wish to become the best version of oneself, to seek to develop qualities of life that generate happiness on all levels...
Everyone is looking for happiness... and in one way or another everyone is spiritual, without even knowing it sometimes... A man who helps selflessly is spiritual, a child who dances in the rain is spiritual... A sick person who smiles at life is spiritual... We all have our moments of depth and we all have the ability to connect to a force greater than ourselves...
Moreover, when medicine, for example, is unable to respond to the ills experienced, many people turn to spirituality in order to find a deep cause for their inner or outer discomfort... And you have to know that spirituality can really bring answers, and yes, much more precise and logical answers than you may think, but for that you really have to find a modern and balanced spiritual Teaching... and above all seek answers with discernment, so as not to enter into extremism that destroys instead of helping us to build...
Perfectionism is an essence that in its positive aspect helps us to improve ourselves, to surpass ourselves in order to reach the best of ourselves... But sometimes perfectionism can also dampen our morale, and make us dry, too analytical, too square, dissatisfied...
Our emotional plan can then get stuck and create deep frustrations if we are not able to recognize our efforts, to congratulate ourselves for the steps we take... And to love life in the perfection of its imperfections...
This perfectionism can affect our spiritual aspirations. Having ideals, spiritual values in our concepts is something positive, because it allows us to follow our dreams during our journey, and thus keep our intention focused on why we are working on ourselves, on what we wish to achieve and integrate as qualities, as virtues. The strength of intention can lead to the manifestation of our greatest aspirations...
However, high ideals can, combined with certain weaknesses, lead us to become extreme. When our goals are too big, when we want to reach the top When our ego starts to play tricks on us... Because we need certain qualities in parallel to reach these high peaks in a fair way, without hurting ourselves but on the contrary, strengthening ourselves.
We are spiritual when we do everything well to manifest ourselves in consciousness, with the will to always do our best. Spirituality is putting knowledge in everything we do. We observe ourselves and work to transform our distortions, our weaknesses, where we act, feel or think in a way we know is wrong.
When we are on this path but we lack kindness towards ourselves, love, it can create great discrepancies... Like a genius who becomes too much in his head and not enough in his heart...
Nous cherchons à incarner nos valeurs en manquant de douceur, de compréhension, de bienveillance, ce qui peut nous blesser et dans le même temps nous empêcher d’évoluer, car chercher à appliquer la connaissance sans amour ça ne fonctionne pas… Cette attitude crée des blocages, nous limite… Elle nous rend plus conceptuel que concret, nous amène de la frustration… On se retrouve alors dans un cercle vicieux de dureté, d’exigence, à analyser notre environnement de façon desséchante… Et nous pouvons y perdre beaucoup d’énergie…
Life is a school, and we must accompany ourselves with the same love we would offer to a child: When he wants to learn something, to improve somewhere and he gets discouraged, cries, or becomes hard on himself, we talk to him with kindness, we comfort him... And this love gives him the will to start again in a better way to reach his dreams, he can then regenerate himself quite naturally and succeed...
To really learn, we must love...
Dans notre spiritualité c’est le même processus, nous devons réapprendre à nous aimer, à nous complimenter en relevant nos qualités, en reconnaissant là où nous avons bien agi dans notre journée, etc… Cela fait partie du cheminement pour que nos apprentissages soient effectifs et sans extrémisme. To keep the beautiful side of perfectionism that helps us to excel, but is not too demanding or dissatisfied...
To become extreme towards oneself or others, it is also the sign that we lack perspective, humility and discernment.
But what is applying the return to self? It is what we do every time we take a step back from a person or a situation that affects us, to recognize that what bothers us in the other person is actually a reflection of something that bothers us in ourselves.
The other is always a mirror of oneself... In terms of percentages of conscious or unconscious memories...
Lorsque nous ne faisons pas cela, nous projetons nos propres dérangements sur l’extérieur de différentes manières : À travers des reproches, des remarques piquantes… Ou même en cherchant à influencer l’autre pour qu’il corresponde à nos idéaux, sans réaliser qu’en agissant de cette façon, nous sommes durs et parfois contrôlants… Toutes ces attitudes participent à nous rendre extrême dans notre façon de vivre notre spiritualité, et en général nous ne réalisons pas que nous agissons pareillement envers nous-même…
Reinforcing this Law of Resonance according to which we attract what we are in both positive and negative aspects allows us to stabilize ourselves, to become more solid and confident in our path. We develop detachment, while being responsible... We broaden our global vision and discover true humility.
Indeed, as we deepen our spirituality, our vision of life expands. We gradually become aware of the different memories that make up our unconscious, and the fact that our soul experiences, builds itself over lifetimes, and lifetimes... That our distortions are percentages of who we are, and that they represent, once transformed, our greatest positive, qualitative potential...
Over time we realize that the cleaning of memories is done daily with patience and kindness, and that it allows us to rise, to improve ourselves, and also to inspire our environment to transform positively...
This collective and universal vision brings a deep serenity... But it can be slowed down or influenced by a negative force that we can all experience, something that sometimes pushes us to focus on our person in a negative way, to selfishly satisfy certain needs, certain insecurities, etc...
Et certains pensent déjà avoir atteint de hauts niveaux de spiritualité, pensent être rendus au sommet, alors que le chemin ne fait que débuter… C’est ce qu’on appelle l’égo spirituel.
As we have seen, spirituality and the journey awaken forces in our unconscious that make us excel, become better and other memories that can limit us. There are percentages of memories in us, old behaviors, ways of thinking that we have encoded that do not necessarily want to improve, to develop qualities... To stay calm instead of getting aggressive... To apologize instead of dominating... Our ego is part of it, and its influence on us can become profound.
We can easily recognize when our spiritual ego influences us: We feel superior to others, we have the impression that we hold the absolute truth, that what others experience or have told us is so much less important than our own knowledge and understanding... which has the effect of inferiorizing the people with whom we communicate, and leads us either to be constantly surrounded to feed this negative force within us, or to isolate ourselves.
Motivated by the negative ego, we can then find ourselves in a distorted, twisted form of spirituality where we seek to satisfy our personal needs, to fill our insecurities generated by our attachment to matter... Much more than to evolve... We can then become prisoners of an illusion that impoverishes us over time... and that makes us lose sight of the true spiritual path...
The spiritual ego prevents one from understanding one's place in the individual and global evolutionary process. A person led by the spiritual ego will not question his own attitudes, emotions and thoughts, and will not truly apply the Law of Resonance, because when we do it with sincerity and depth, the mask of ego has no place, and we find our way and our balance between self-confidence and humility...
Il est normal que différentes mémoires remontent à la surface lorsque nous sommes spirituel, et c’est un véritable cadeau du Ciel à la fois, ce qui fait partie du chemin… Rencontrer nos faiblesses signifie que nous sommes prêts à les transformer et à passer à une autre étape de compréhension…
When we perceive that in some way we are extreme, we can meditate with positive mantras, such as the Angelica Mantra techniques to develop the qualities that need to be worked on when we are experiencing extremism, for example: receptivity, i.e. the ability to listen, to welcome, support, benevolence, love, indulgence, balance, etc... These qualities allow us to relearn to love ourselves truly, to find balance in our way of building ourselves, to rise, as much internally as in our way of acting...
The mantra is one of the oldest meditation techniques that exist, it dates back to the dawn of time. It is as powerful as it is simple to practice. All you have to do is repeat a word, a sacred name or a phrase that carries a deep meaning.
With the mantra, it is the intention that is most important and that must be positive to generate a positive reprogramming of the consciousness...
To work with mantras is to really bring solutions to our problems, because we become what we repeat to ourselves internally... And the more we repeat qualities to ourselves, the more we can program them in and around ourselves.
We become what we repeat to ourselves...
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