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Injuries, accidents... What if it's not a coincidence...? Have you ever had the impression that life was trying to speak to you? Whether it was through an event, an unexpected event, an injury, an illness? That it was giving you a "sign"... ? If so, then your intuition was right... Because behind every accident, every injury we encounter on our way, there is a deep meaning... Keys to readjust our life in a better direction... ????

Accidents, injuries

Think about the last time you hurt yourself... Maybe you dropped something on your foot, or cut yourself while cooking or "tripped". Maybe you were bitten by an insect on a beautiful day outdoors or came home with a sunburn... Did you know that all these scenarios contain meaning, messages about our thoughts, feelings and behaviors?

In the DSSI training, students learn about symbolism not only in dreams but also in everyday situations. When analyzing an injury, illness or even an "accident", several factors must be taken into account. First of all, we can look at the general setting: the time and place, what our thoughts or emotions were at the time of the injury. Depending on whether we hurt ourselves at the office during the work day or while out with friends at night, the interpretation will be different. Of course, we can always improve our safety in concrete ways, such as improving certain standards at work or equipping ourselves differently for different types of activities. However, even so, we can always understand the deeper meaning of an injury, what it brings us in terms of information on a symbolic level.

A sports session... too intense?

Here is an example based on the testimony of a DSSI student, who recently injured his calf during a group martial arts class. The fact that we get injured while exercising is related to our willpower, our drive. Because the injury occurred in a group setting, it is related to how the student relates to others and exchanges in a group setting. This is different from an injury during an individual activity, for example, which would indicate a tendency to push oneself individually.

Each part of the body also has its own symbolism. Some of these are probably intuitively known or can be understood, such as the connection of the throat with communication, our hands representing the way we give and receive, and the heart symbolizing the driving aspect of our life energy (the heart actually performing the function of a pump) which can also be related to the way we love. The Source Code dictionary is a fantastic resource for discovering the deeper meaning of signs and symbols. But even without this dictionary, if we don't know the meaning of something - in this case, a body part - it can be helpful to research it online. We can then take what we have learned about its physical properties and apply it as a symbol, a state of consciousness existing within us.

The leg: our way forward in life

The muscles of the upper leg are some of the largest and strongest in the body, so they are related to power and strength in the way we move forward. The calf, on the other hand, relates to propulsion - it literally pushes us forward when we take a step (this is the movement the student was doing when he tore his calf muscle). So while the legs generally represent how we move forward in action, the calves specifically represent our initial energy in that action. The calf muscles are also important for balance, posture and stability.

Even the left and right sides have specific meanings: the left side is related to the inner world and the right side to the outer world. In this case, it is the right leg that was injured, so it is a concrete, physical action, as opposed to a more figurative inner progression.

When the injury occurred, the students were standing in a circle - strengthening the bond with the group - around the teacher who had just explained a technique. She turned to our student and asked him to help her demonstrate. The student recalls that "at that point, I threw myself at her enthusiastically - too much so - and I got hurt. I wanted to do a good job in the eyes of my teacher, with whom I have a very good relationship and whom I admire, but also in front of the other students."

Memories

Here we can understand the student a little better in terms of memories: the experiences, thoughts and emotions that he carries within him, even unconsciously. Part of his being was in contact with memories of seeking approval, feeling of belonging and needing recognition. Sometimes this strong need pushes the student to take action too impulsively and too energetically. This can destabilize their progress and, paradoxically, end up blocking it.

If we can consider injuries as messages about the parts of ourselves that we need to work on, then the severity of an injury suffered corresponds to the urgency and intensity of the memories stored within. A simple scratch would indicate the existence of a small percentage to which the injured person must be attentive, as a small reminder to recalibrate their energy and attitude. In this case, although the injury could have been much more serious, the muscle tear disabled the student enough to realize the need to take stock and see what needed to be changed.

Reparation

Having to go through the gradual recovery process with acceptance and patience brought to light other things to understand. "More than one of my training partners pointed out that my body insisted on resting," the student admits. "And I'm someone who always wants to do 'whatever it takes.' Having to do things more slowly also made me realize how often I rush through things."

Being injured can also, surprisingly, lead us to acknowledge or appreciate what we were previously unaware of, as the injury brings about a "forced" internalization compared to the overly emissive movement that leads to the injury. The student had to rely heavily on his training partners right after his injury, "I felt really well taken care of
 it brought me closer together with this particular group" the student says. "In fact it helped me realize that it is Ok to rely on others, and it also felt good to share my feelings of gratitude."

La vie en symboles… 🙂

The next time you find yourself with an injury, you may feel frustrated and think, "It's just one of those things that happens"... But look beyond that ???? . Accept it as an opportunity to reflect on all aspects of what happened, as well as the thoughts and feelings it brings up in you. Why did life create a limitation? Then you can work on transforming what is necessary to develop your qualities and improve yourself as a person, without dramatizing and doing your best internally and practically...

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Have you ever felt that someone was hearing what you were saying, but not really listening? Are you yourself sometimes distracted when someone is talking to you? Are you really, truly present? Or is there a part of you that tries to speed up, control or escape the conversation? Have you ever wondered how some people do it, to have that attentive listening that makes it seem as if nothing else exists around them, just for the time of that exchange... Who are fully present? It is symbolic listening, the listening with symbols... That makes us understand the hidden realities, and allows us to connect deeply with the other...

The symbols

The definition and meaning of symbols - what we call symbolic language - is one of the cornerstones of understanding the functioning of human consciousness. This language is essentially revealed through dreams, which we patiently learn to decode, in order to understand the messages that are delivered to us to guide us in our projects, our choices, our decisions, our actions, our words...

The UCM Teaching and Research Center has published the Dictionary The Source Code, a fascinating, essential and fundamental reference, through which it becomes possible to learn and understand, in an autonomous way, the signals of our unconscious, the keys of our memories...

Thus, it becomes "easy" - more and more with time - to shed light on our dark and hidden zones, the regions buried within us that can only be discovered if we truly decide to walk towards them.

But in the deep desire to know oneself spiritually, there is sometimes a widespread tendency to "just see the invisible", i.e. to be interested only in what happens in the inner world, with the logical consequence of moving away from the concrete presence of daily life, to become weary of the surrounding reality, even to reject it. We fly away. One goes away. Finally, we get lost. Because it is possible to lose oneself in the abstract... Because one only listens to oneself. We are sometimes only interested in ourselves and our "evolution". And one can forget the others.

Listening

One of the explanations for this is that we have lost the ability to listen. Listening attentively to every moment of our lives. Listening consciously. Just as there is symbolic language, there is also the symbolic listening, alive in every interaction, every exchange, every gesture. In every silence even...

Here is a particularly vivid example from a teacher's testimony: during a class assembly, a student suddenly complained of severe discomfort during a health class.

   - Sir, I don't want to go to this class anymore, it disgusts me, and the lady doesn't understand anything, she doesn't listen to me. Everything disgusts me, it makes me want to vomit!

Strong words, a raw language, almost brutal; a tense face, drawn, scornful, grimacing...

   - What did you talk about, José?

   - It was that sex education, that disgusting thing, the male apparatus. It disgusts me!

When we learn that José does not eat at the same table as his father, even to the point of going without meals, that they do not speak to each other, that he does not receive pocket money, that he is one of many children born to several mothers, we begin to understand why the male reproductive system disgusts him and why he no longer wants to attend sex education classes.

In this first stage of accompaniment of a young person in disarray, struggling with life, symbolic listening is of primary importance. It is a matter of detecting the memories at stake, finding the roots of the malaise, understanding through the heart what kind of destiny has been activated...

We certainly have a particularly evocative example here, almost "obvious", and yet... If we reflect well, with honesty, on our day yesterday, our past week, our days as a whole - are we listening well?

They are all around us

You don't need to analyze a case of abuse to find symbols; they are everywhere... Like images that help us understand what others experience in their inner world:

  • "Ah, winter has begun, the weather is really bad..."
  • "I hurt my back yesterday, but well, you know I have to keep on taking care of everything here, otherwise nothing will progress..."
  • "My phone is down; I didn't see your message!"
  • "All these wars in the world; it's bad..."

But this can be positive too, of course:

  • "I am thrilled with my last music class with my friends!"
  • "How nice of you to give me these beautiful flowers."
  • "I slept really well last night..."

When you practice symbolic listening, it's like opening your eyes to a new world. Everything takes on a meaning that we may never have suspected. And thanks to its friend the law of resonance, they form a top-level guidance duo capable of teaching us as much about others as about ourselves.

This is what symbolic listening is all about: hearing that behind a disgust, there is suffering... that behind the winter cold, there may be the beginning of a depression... behind the flowers, there are feelings that are perhaps never said, or received...

Et vous, ĂȘtes-vous bien Ă  l’Ă©coute de la vie ? 🙂

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But... What are memories? How do they function? How do they work within? Where do they come from? Why are they there? Can we change them? What effect do they have on a life? Can it affect me personally? At work? Socially? Here is an article that will answer these different questions...

What are memories?

Memories are codes in our thoughts, emotions and actions that have been recorded from the past and influence the way we think, feel and act today. It is also important to know that these codes also influence our future, hence the importance of rectifying them if they are not programmed in a positive way.

Memories are created on all levels - spiritual, intellectual, emotional and physical. Memories are recorded since our birth and even before. Thus, all the experiences and emotions, both positive and negative, that we have lived through are recorded in our memories, our inner hard drive.

Positive and negative memories

The positive memories help us to manifest the qualities we have developed, to live and to concretize the beautiful work we have done in the past and that we transpose in the present.

Negative memories show us what we have accumulated through our negative experiences in our thoughts and actions, which we need to work on, clean up and transform in order to evolve on all levels. Otherwise, the same difficult patterns will tend to repeat themselves in our lives.

Understanding our memories

We can understand our memories with the help of symbolic language (because everything is a symbol), meditation, the law of resonance (we attract everything we are, in the positive, but also the negative) and of course, through our dreams. Learning to interpret our dreams is a very advanced, even avant-garde way to understand our memories, who we are, what we are becoming, and what we need to rectify to become a better person. Dreams are the portal to the unconscious where we can access the memories of this life that we have forgotten, or are not aware of, and through symbolic language we can analyze and transform our memories.

Il est important de voir nos mĂ©moires en termes de pourcentage. Car si par exemple On nous montre en rĂȘve que nous avons un sentiment de supĂ©rioritĂ©, que nous cherchons la reconnaissance sociale, ou que nous avons trop besoin de plaire, cela ne veut pas dire que ne nous sommes que cela. Il faut le voir comme un pourcentage qui doit ĂȘtre transformĂ© pour continuer Ă  s’amĂ©liorer 🙂

Impact of Memories on our lives

Personal life

Sometimes we may wonder why we had a difficult childhood, why we have difficulties in our relationship or in our family. Memories play an essential role in our current life and give us information that tells us what we need to learn. For example, if we have been harsh and hurtful with a spouse in the past, then through the Law of Karma, we will experience the difficulties we have caused the other person to go through, to learn what that feels like and not repeat that behavior.

We do not have to receive the lesson in the exact form, but it can be through different situations and with different people in our personal lives. For example, if we were unfaithful to our spouse in a past life, then we can experience that same pattern in this life, or another, to learn the importance of fidelity and the harmful consequences it brings.

But there are also wonderful experiences that we can have on a personal level, like a loving and caring family, a balanced intimacy that are the result of positive memories and that sow beautiful things for our future.

Professional life 

Another area of life where people ask "why" is work. Why a difficult boss? Why the lack of recognition at work? Why is there sometimes inequity or too much ambition, competition? Etc... This shows that in our memories we carry % where we were (or created) what we encounter, where there was favoritism, abuse of power, ego games, etc.

But no matter what situation you are in, you are there to learn. We learn to be kind, patient, respectful, not to seek recognition and praise in work... We learn the true meaning of work, which is to develop qualities and virtues. And when we stop rebelling or positioning ourselves as victims, we improve, we move on to the next stage and new learning and opportunities open up.

When we are able to show up well at work and have a healthy environment, respect others and are respected and given great opportunities to grow, we live out the positive memories we have built.

Social life

Some people are very comfortable in social life and have no fear of public speaking; while others have difficulty being comfortable. Again, this is all due to the memories that one has recorded over many lifetimes.

If a person has experienced humiliation, judgment and rejection at the social level, he or she will tend to run away from society, not to have confidence in him or herself, to feel inferior and be afraid to express his or her opinion, etc. And understanding this can help us to have more compassion and better accompany the person in the overcoming of oneself and in the rediscovery of one's deep qualities.

Memories create who we are today

We record memories at all levels of our life and every day... Through these memories, we live the life we ourselves have created. Since the purpose of life is to develop Qualities and Virtues, it becomes essential to understand our memories and the impact they have on our present life.

We can rectify our past mistakes by analyzing them, by applying the law of resonance, and especially by having the Will to change our internal and external patterns that make us go around in circles, or that bring negative situations. Memories show us our own reflection and once we understand them, we understand their impact and we have the power to change our lives for the better.

Know that it is never too late to choose to work on ourselves, on our memories, to find our deepest strengths and our full potential.

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Did I make the right choice, or will I regret it later? Did I really make this choice "in good conscience"? Or is there something else that influenced me? Something external? A situation? A person? Or something inside me...? Unconscious forces? How to make the right choices in a world where everything changes so fast?... How to find peace with our decisions of yesterday, when they affect our life today... Sometimes for good, sometimes for bad... And what about the future? Can we improve or even change the way we make choices?

Did I make the right choice?

Have you ever wondered about the rightness of a choice you made at a given moment in your day, for your life as a couple, for those around you, or in your work?

This choice, which may have had positive and lasting effects or negative and limiting effects on your environment, a person or a situation, then leads you to question yourself... And this questioning translates into the activation of an intelligence of consciousness within you.

When it is done with humility, self-reflection and depth, this questioning demonstrates a spiritual force, an evolutionary force that is able to evaluate and adjust. This inner mechanism is important to build so that the future choices you will make will be better, more intuitive, obvious, less full of doubts, insecurities or overconfidence, materialism.

"Deciding", "making a choice" is a responsibility that should be done in accordance with our values and spiritual strength.

The Qualities with the parameters of the moment

The evaluationof the rightness of a choice must be made with a global vision, with perspective, with a greatness of mind and soul, as much on the origins of this choice as on its consequences. Every choice is important, and can have consequences on our environment, we know that.

At the moment " t " a choice is made. It must require reflection, intuition and concentration so that it can be as accurate as possible in the conditions of the moment, whether it is with regard to a person or a situation. The conditions of the moment are there, in the present moment, and we adapt to them to make the best possible choice. Everything may not be perfect, so it is a matter of welcoming this moment as the best one, understanding that we have everything we need to make our choice, without telling ourselves that it would have been better otherwise. To be in this moment, with detachment, is also to take responsibility as an actor of our Life to materialize.

The Qualities are absolute, constant, unchangeable, whether we are making a simple choice that has little impact on our lives, or whether we are making a choice that will change our future forever. What will change the scope is the power of the intention (the kawana). It will increase the strength of these Qualities and keep away the wind of doubt, the tremor of fear, the shiver of instability. The choice made will be conscious, qualitative and responsible.

Questioning Life as much as oneself

If we think about it, questioning Life and the Universe about the rightness of our choice for each daily decision and imagining to wait passively for a "green light" to execute it, it doesn't seem very practical concretely....

However, for important choices that can change a whole life, it should be necessary... And there is an absolute tool that completes the application of the Qualities we talked about before. This tool is Guidance; a term inspired by the "Guide" that will show us the first steps to take, and in what direction, to make the best possible choice at the given moment.

To access this Guidance, this symbolic and real Truth at the same time, which is offered to us through dreams and meditation, it is necessary to cultivate humility, self-reflection, wisdom and neutrality. We start to question the Universe on what touches us deep inside at this moment...

"Is this the right person for the evolution of my soul, is it right to marry him?"... "At my age, is it right for the evolution of my soul to have a child with my husband whom I love so much? After so many years of silence, of introspection, is it right for the evolution of my soul to reconnect with my parents?

This guidance is at the heart of the Knowledge practiced with dreams, signs and symbols. It teaches us to be receptive, to respect what is right for our evolution, to materialize this choice as a responsible person. Naturally, in order to be guided and to understand the codes of dreams, it is necessary to work on one's unconscious attachments, fears, and needs, in order to be able to have a neutral and objective attitude.

Access to the Guide is gradual and allows, with time, combined with the development of the Qualities, to find answers to deep questioning and solutions to dead ends. It thus allows one to make new choices, with new perspectives. It is like a reconstruction that is programmed in respect of the moment.

It is important to question ourselves internally, our attitudes, our decisions... and it is also important to know how to question what surrounds us, to evaluate Life, the choices of society by discerning the strengths and weaknesses. Questioning Life allows for the opening, learning and the acceleration of consciousness. This allows us to always make better choices with time.

Everything is evolution

What is important to keep in mind is that each choice is made according to the Qualities of the moment, and many parameters over which we have no control. By receiving the Guidance, it is possible to materialize a choice. But this choice is not immutable, it will evolve in the course of time, through other choices, other decisions that you will make, and that the community will make around you.

This choice of the moment " t ", accompanied and guided by the Qualities you possess, will perhaps not be the same at the moment " t - 6 " or " t + 45 ". The evolution of our consciousness is intrinsically linked to the way we question ourselves, and it is so important to nourish this evolution in order to feel and live the dynamics of Life within.

Sometimes, life can seem superficial when we don't question ourselves when we do something wrong, when we don't realize that a word was hurtful, when we don't find in ourselves the humility to apologize to our wife or husband... When we do not develop our intelligence by questioning Life, when we do not have the faith to pray when we feel deprived, or when we have not learned to cry when we are touched by the words of love of our child... Then the choices we make may seem insipid, without flavor for the life we create through these same choices... Because by our choices and our lack of choices, we create that...

Today's society is very active, dimensioned. It offers us many opportunities. The sense of decision, of responsibility in a choice sometimes loses its value, because everything is so accessible, so available, that the collective intelligence can trivialize the moral sense that makes one choice right and another not.

In order not to feel lost in this effervescence of possibilities and acceleration of societies, there are Keys...

The Keys of today and tomorrow

I regularly ask myself the question of the rightness of my choices, whether they are important or not, linked to the past or to the future, to create a dimensional, dynamic, evolving life...

This life, I want it to teach me continuously to adjust myself, to complete my spiritual Knowledge and my strength of materialization, to develop my faith to become a being connected to his Spirituality, because I recognize myself fully in it.

By being able to look inside yourself, to feel your emotions, your disturbances, to question the scope of your choice, by showing humility and detachment, you will develop your spiritual powers and learn to use them wisely... You will understand guidance through the analysis of your dreams. You will deepen your faith through prayer and mantra.

These are the Keys of today to build with Wisdom the decisions of tomorrow towards a modern, responsible and spiritual world. Continue to question yourself, to be responsible in your choices, continue to believe in yourself and in the future, to do better today than yesterday.

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How do we know it's really over? Does it mean having forgotten about the other person? Or not finding anything positive about them anymore? Or even feeling repulsed? What does it mean if you attract the same type of person over and over again? What does it mean if we ourselves behave in the same way again and again? If we repeat the same cycles, the same patterns...? Are we really over that old relationship? Or does it still haunt us? Can we really be free one day?

"My past is settled."

Sometimes you can read on the profiles of dating sites, "My past is settled...".

Hmm... have we really settled our past? Of course we can have a successful divorce or separation without intense conflicts or arguments... But have the reasons that led us to this breakup been well understood?

When we ask ourselves this question, we are really becoming aware of the deep mechanism that led us to this "failure" in our relationships. And one day the word "failure" will no longer exist in our vocabulary, because all these experimentations are there to help us discover these unconscious mechanisms. Whether it is in our relationships, in our family, at work, etc., all these behaviors come from past experiences that have created memories (data, so to speak) in our personal computer... The human being is like a living computer that experiences the positive and the negative throughout his life...

When the past resurfaces...

One day, I was talking to someone I hadn't seen in a long time. I knew that she had gone through a difficult divorce and she was sharing with me the stages of her life in love. So I said to her:

"Without deep work on your memories, you can find yourself in a beautiful, very harmonious relationship but one word, one gesture can bring up all the past memories that triggered the separation."

And that's exactly what happened... One day, her new partner made a remark in the same energy as her ex-husband, and that block of memories came to the surface instantly... And she ended the relationship. Yet, he was possibly a good person for her. A memory is very powerful...

To face the past and ensure that these love patterns do not return, one must go through several stages of cleansing. Of course, the concrete is important: make sure that you have a new home where you feel good, that the children, if you have any, are happy in their new environment, etc. All these steps are essential.

But the most important step is the cleansing of the memories, to understand in depth why we arrived there. Because all love stories begin with an attraction, love, etc. ....

So what is it that makes us unable to maintain this frequency? Once again, it is our past experimentations of this life, but also of other lives (if we believe in reincarnation) that come to be integrated in our beautiful, original intention of building the couple, the love. Everyone is looking for Love, it is the most important thing. It seems easy... But to find true and pure Love... It is Great.

"Falling in love"...

Several years ago, I literally "fell" in love with a man.

You know the expression to have someone under your skin... it was really like that, I was totally dependent on him, like a drug...

I experienced the lack when he was not there - it was passionate, beautiful but at the same time so painful. When I think back, I wouldn't wish that on anyone. It's like being a slave to that person on some level. The relationship didn't last long but it was intense on all levels. We had deep affinities about life and values, affinities also on the sexual level - it was really the fire, the passion that bound us.

When it was over, I really cried my heart out... and I also told myself that I would never go through that again.

The dream

I have worked hard, in depth, on these memories of passion, of fire in love, of emotional dependencies to make sure that I would not relive this. I was doing this work on my memories but I was also aware that I still had this hope in me... "what if he came back".

It's a bit like a battered woman who understands that it's not right but at the same time is completely connected to that energy. It took me years of working on my memories to not want to go through that kind of love intensity again... until one day I really felt in my cells a liberation... Finally! this is the dream I received.

I am in the car with Alfredo, we are sitting in the back, I think there are other people with us. He has a dominating look because I repel his advances in the car. I arrive at his house where he lives, I don't know this place and he goes to shower. As he closes the door to our room, I go to another room where there is an attached bathroom. I go to the bathroom and pull out a thread from the anus, but it is long, so long, it takes several minutes and I try to cut it, it is very resistant so I keep pulling it out until the end. The person who lives in this room arrives, I open the door and I tell him that I am here, that I am almost finished. I clean up the floor, because it's spilled everywhere and I get out.

 

When I woke up from this dream I felt a disconnection with this man, but completely... these memories of dominance over the other in my love relationship, I was in the process of cutting this link metaphysically... A dream of purification but also showing me how much I was linked for a long time to this kind of energy. The thread that is long also represents all my perseverance and my will to go to the end to totally purify these memories. And of course my attachment to him, which was deep...

Renewing yourself

I have done several types of therapy and it was a good foundation one could say. But dealing with your past without taking into account your dreams, memories (etc.) is like cleaning a room or a house, but without opening the cupboards, the drawers or cleaning the basement... On the surface, it looks very clean.

But in the end, the great work has not yet begun.

If you too have had experiences in love that you can't let go of, ask in your dreams why before going to bed...

A dream is a direct message to your unconscious mind, to the very closets and basements that have not been visited in a long time. It is the most beautiful gift you can give yourself and also helps to ensure that you don't go back to the same patterns.

To build a love relationship through your dreams is to build to improve it, so that the Fountain of Love from the beginning does not dry up after a few months but continues to bring and grow its benefits over the years.

Because yes, it is possible to use your dreams to know if a person is the right one for you...

Yes, it is possible in celibacy to learn to love solitude. Take some time to work on yourself and then find "the right relationship"... that will help you in every way.

And yes, it is possible to repair your heart... to love again one day...

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Have you ever wondered what creates success? Beyond opportunities, background, and the vagaries of life? Because yes, there is a recipe for success... And it is very different from what you might imagine at first. Because true success cannot be built only on the outside, quite the contrary. It must first come from within, from our own inner leadership. The really good news? There are keys to building this within ourselves.

About leadership...

It's not always easy to be a good leader. And leadership and management are two different things. Being a good leader means that we have to be an example of qualities, to be able to "set an example", to inspire our colleagues, friends or even family! Of course, it is not necessary to be perfect immediately... It is a path with many steps and being happy with the journey is an important part of it.

To be a good leader, there are a few aspects that a person must develop. Let's see what these aspects are.

1. You must listen...

Developing your receptivity is the key. Indeed, receptivity helps you to understand the information in the first place, and therefore, to find the right answer, the right decisions to make. This can be true at work, but also in everything you do, in all situations.

Sometimes, as a leader, you don't know all the answers and that's okay. But you should always remain open and listen to what others have to share. If you don't listen enough, you'll miss parts of the big picture, and people may start to see you as a stubborn person and they'll share their ideas less and less, which can also lead to trust issues, etc. But by listening well from the start, you will be able to create a harmonious dynamic wherever you go.

2. Free yourself from what others think of you.

You are not perfect, and this is normal, because the very foundation of life is evolution. If you have altruistic and constructive values, your foundation will be ready for growth. But if you care too much about what others think, you might start to be too kind, for example... And a leader who is too kind might miss important steps along the way and not be able to fulfill his or her mission to also represent a force of justice and authority, or to advocate for his or her company or employees in a resilient and structured way.

3. Lead by example.

By multiplying good examples, you build trust. With trust, people will follow you. One day, when you have been a good example many times, people will naturally listen to you because they will have proof that what you are doing works and that it is always supported by good intention. It also means that setting a good example can be about apologizing or correcting your mistakes with a good attitude. In this way, you will have built a naturally balanced authority, without even asking for it...

4. Become an expert in problem solving.

Knowing that "problems = solutions" is one thing. But applying it in daily life is another story. You have to build that way of thinking, that attitude where you see problems as an opportunity to learn new things. This requires repetition and, of course, facing difficulties, rather than running away from them.

5. Encourage the positive in everyone.

To be truly kind and caring (but in a balanced way), you must be able to recognize the strengths and qualities of the people around you. And more than recognizing their qualities, you must also nurture those qualities as well as your own. This means encouraging others when they do well, giving them sincere compliments. Not too much, not too little, and with yourself as well.

If you apply these keys, success will only be a matter of time... And it will always come from within before it shows up around you.

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Your body expresses itself, it speaks to you... But do you know how to listen to it, how to understand it? Do you know its language? Would you like to discover the mysteries it has to reveal to you? Because it does not only speak to you about your physical health, it is much deeper... Your physical health is a consequence, not the cause of what you experience sometimes... Your body has things to tell you to rewrite your life, to create health at all levels in you.

The coded language of the body: symbolism

When I started to study my unconscious, I gradually discovered that there was a coded language, it is the language of the unconscious. I will give you a simple example to help you understand what the coded language is, the symbolic language.

Our unconscious speaks to us

People often say "I like dogs more", "I like cats better". Do you really think it's a coincidence? Not really. When we know the symbolic language, we understand that the person in his unconscious wishes to express and likes the states of consciousness inscribed in a cat, dog, or animal.

If you prefer dogs, then it means that your soul wishes to develop spontaneous love, fidelity, loyalty, natural joy but that you should be careful about emotional dependence. If you prefer cats, then your soul wishes to develop a beautiful autonomy, an independent side, a calm and composed side that knows how to take care of itself, but on the other hand, you should be careful not to be over-independent and put others at a distance.

Understanding the code

You see, behind everything, there is a state of consciousness that is inscribed. And it is the same for the human body. If, for example, we have a liver problem, we have to study and understand what the state of consciousness of the liver is. The liver is used to store energy, to transform and purify certain toxins in the body. The liver also participates in digestion.

So if a problem occurs in the liver, we must see in our daily life, where we may have difficulty to purify the negative, the thoughts, the negative emotions that affect us, whether it is our own thoughts, our own emotions or what those of others awaken in us. It is necessary to study which events, which situations it is difficult to digest, to accept. By meditating on these difficulties, you will be able to transform your daily experiences into wisdom and deep understanding...

Applying knowledge

If you wish to understand your body, learn the coded language of the unconscious and no more secrets will remain... You will know what the body wishes to communicate to you and thus you will be able to improve yourself in an extraordinary way and transform your life thanks to these understandings which exceed all that you could imagine...

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You have always felt different from others. You ask yourself questions that most people don't have answers to. You look at your family members and realize things about them that they don't even realize. Think you have a problem? Don't worry, it's normal. You are experiencing an opening of consciousness. You are becoming spiritual...

1 - You feel like you are playing roles all the time

Quand tu Ă©tais plus jeune, tu aimais tellement les rĂ©unions de famille, jouer avec tes cousins, cousines, voir tes oncles et tantes, ou des amis de la famille. Mais depuis quelques temps, tu trouves cela diffĂ©rent. Tu rĂ©alises que ton oncle raconte toujours les mĂȘmes histoires Ă  propos de son travail et tu te forces Ă  l’écouter. Quand elle te dit bonjour, ta tante t’embrasse toujours avec son rouge Ă  lĂšvres qui dĂ©gouline sur ta joue, et elle te serre dans ses bras en te faisant presque une prise de catch. Et le pire c’est qu’elle ne s’en rend pas compte
 🙂 Ton cousin fait des blagues cochonnes pendant le repas et ça fait rire tout le monde, mais tu sens que sa femme en a assez et qu’elle se force Ă  sourire depuis trop longtemps.

And you, in the midst of all this, remain the one who is nice to everyone. You'd like to say certain things, but you try not to create any discomfort around you because you know it could break the mood. So you keep quiet, you smile, and you continue to play your role, like everyone else around you...

It is very common when we become spiritual to have the impression of playing roles with the people around us. And it is normal at first, because to know ourselves in depth, we have to experiment, to "test" all the roles that exist to better understand them. You have to have been too kind to understand true kindness... And you have to have been crushed to know where your limits are and to have them respected... Just as you have to have been too imposing with others to know how far you can go.

"It's okay to play roles at first... We experiment with our personality... Until we find the Essence of who we are..."

One day, we come to understand these different roles that we have played, or that we have seen around us, and we understand that certain energies do not create a harmonious energy, and that others can create on the contrary a beautiful atmosphere. We analyze the + and the - of each one and we know which roles are positive, and which are negative... And we can then integrate in ourselves the positive side of what we have experienced...

And it is by getting to know ourselves better through our dreams that we can truly know the facets of our personality. We can see in our dreams our need for attention, our desire to please, our memories of low self-esteem, etc... But also our welcoming energy, our generosity, our motivation, and all of our beautiful qualities... And by studying them, by understanding them, we can also better recognize them when they manifest themselves in our daily lives, whether in ourselves or in the people around us.

With the opening of consciousness that we experience when we are spiritual, we can feel very destabilized, because we discover many different parts of ourselves, and our personality can feel fragmented, not knowing who we are anymore. But by practicing meditation or Mantra, we can find a unity in our personality, know what our main essence is and develop it in a way that is constructive for ourselves and for the people around us. We no longer need to play a role, because our personality is better unified, focused.

Then we can more easily react to the different energies we encounter in our daily life... We are able to talk to someone who has disrespected us, diplomatically, without projecting our disturbance on the other. And we are able to let it go too, to not be extreme in our reaction... And we have compassion for the other at that moment, rather than responding with hate, because we come back to ourselves... We understand that the other always shows us a facet of ourselves through the Law of Resonance...

"With the Law of Resonance, we understand that the other is always a part of ourselves."

Because yes, your uncle, your aunt and your cousin are always parts of you to be transformed... And if you feel disturbed by their attitude, it is because there is something to understand about it, a percentage in you that resonates with them... And if you work on it, if you transform it in yourself, one day you won't be disturbed anymore, and you will manage to react in the right way.

When we are spiritual like you, it is our responsibility to work on ourselves, not to project our disturbance on the other. And if we manage to do it one day at a time, one memory at a time, then one day we feel unified, confident, and we don't need to play roles anymore... Because we know who we are, we know who the other is, and we know exactly what is the right energy to adopt with the person...

2 - You are looking for a meaning to your life

When you see people around you, some have a good job, a good salary, but you feel that something is missing in their life... You have the impression that they live in an illusion... Matter is present around them, they have a family, but they don't look deeply happy. Before, you didn't realize it, but the more you observe the people around you, the more you understand that matter and money are tools that help to create stability, but are not the source of happiness...

So you ask yourself questions and wonder what you are doing here? Why do we live, why do we die? What's the point of having a job if you're not happy doing it? And you think more about your salary than anything else to motivate yourself?

These questions are very important to ask, and they are often found among spiritual people. For one day, the more deeply one understands life, the more one is aware of the illusions in which most people live. But at the same time, there is an essential aspect to understanding all of this, because the illusions have their place... Illusion is educational, et c’est bien important de ne pas l’oublier
 Si tu dis Ă  tes parents du jour au lendemain que leur mariage est une illusion car ils ne s’aiment pas vraiment, ou qu’ils ont passĂ© 40 ans de leur vie Ă  faire un travail qu’ils n’aiment pas, ils vont probablement pas trĂšs bien rĂ©agir
 🙂

"We should never impose our values on each other, even if they are positive."

That's why you have to be careful when you are a spiritual person not to become extreme about the meaning of life. Yes, you have chosen to see life more deeply, and that is great. But it's not because the other person doesn't meditate or is too materialistic that he is a bad person... Maybe your uncle tells dirty jokes at family gatherings, but at least he is a reliable person, well organized in his work, a good family man who loves his children... And that's important to remember.

The meaning of life is something so personal and deep, and that's why we should never impose our values on others, even if they are positive. Car mĂȘme le positif, s’il est imposĂ© Ă  l’autre, peut devenir nĂ©gatif Ă  cause de l’intention que tu y mets
 Alors avant de parler du sens de la vie Ă  ton oncle, tourne ta langue 7 fois dans ta bouche et fais attention Ă  ne pas lui “retourner le cerveau” trop vite
 Car il a besoin de ses Ă©tapes pour Ă©voluer et dĂ©velopper des qualitĂ©s qu’il ne pourrait pas dĂ©velopper autrement 🙂

3 - You don't feel well and you don't know why

And yet you have everything you need in your life... You have a place to live, a family, food and material in abundance around you; you have everything to be happy but you are not and this puzzles you. So you go to see a psychiatrist and he gives you a diagnosis: you are suffering from depression. He's right, and wanting to do the right thing he prescribes anti-depressants. It helps you and it gets better for a while, but when you stop taking them, it's a free fall. It's a roller coaster of emotions when everything is calm around you, and it turns you upside down...

But it's not your psychiatrist's fault. He has advised you to the best of his knowledge and antidepressants have their place for people who are dangerous to themselves and to others. But if you really want to heal deeply, it is time to go and meet your memories... They are what create these discrepancies in your life...

And when we understand the reality of memories, we even realize that depression is a stage that is sometimes necessary for some people... Because someone who is depressed is experiencing an opening of consciousness... And this can activate in him a new strength, a seed of renewal that would not have been possible without this emergence of memories. All these phases are typical of spiritual people, and even if you don't really feel depressed, you understand what it is like and you too experience ups and downs without knowing why.

"It is the memories that are the source of all the difficulties we encounter... Like a computer that is saturated with programs..."

Indeed, it is our memories that make us feel bad inside... And they can sometimes make us act in a weird way too... Like rejecting someone we love, being afraid of love, or feeling attracted to someone who hurts us or disrespects us...

You can see it all in your dreams. And by working on your dreams, studying them and understanding them, you can really integrate deeply why you don't feel well. And with the practice of meditation, of Mantra, you can cleanse your memories, and thus transform yourself from the inside. And then you finally understand why you feel the way you do... And you can start to appreciate what life has given you again.

It's so important to remain grateful for what we have received in life, even if it's not perfect. We should always take a moment in our day where we thank Life, the Universe or God, whatever we call Him, for everything positive in our life... And one day, if we cultivate this state of mind, we are even able to feel gratitude in the more difficult, negative moments... Because we understand that the negative is there to help us grow.

If you're still feeling under the weather, feel free to make an appointment at the UCM clinic. We know what it's like not to feel well. We've all been there... And if you're looking for deep life advice on what you're going through, you can be sure that you'll be understood and accompanied with kindness...

4 - You would like to change the world... but you don't know how

When you watch the news on television, you wonder why they don't talk about more important issues. It's always the same refrain, the same energy of fear and insecurity. You are tired of it and you wish people would realize the beauty of life, get out of their problems and stop worrying about nothing. You even start to wonder if there isn't a plot somewhere...

So you try to change the world around you. You have heated debates with some friends who think differently. They call you an idealist, but you resist. You don't give in. And sometimes this creates tension with those close to you. You get angry with people who have a too down-to-earth view of life. Or you don't say anything, and you remain silent, but you get crushed by the opinions of others... Hmm...

This is often the way a spiritual person will react: either by being too reactionary, extremist, or by saying nothing and being too nice. Or sometimes by going from one to the other. And one day we understand that no matter how hard we try to put forward the best arguments in the world, if the other person doesn't want to change, he won't change.

But at the same time, it is not an excuse to avoid conflicts and never express yourself when someone asks you for your opinion. You have to be careful when you are spiritual not to run away from the disturbances you may have about certain subjects or people... And to withdraw from society saying to yourself that you will never manage to change it anyway...

"It is the deep desire to improve that everyone has within them that can one day change the world... One person at a time."

Indeed, when one is spiritual, sometimes not knowing how to change the world, one prefers to withdraw from it... But this is not an ideal solution. If we want to change a society, we must also understand its rules, its functioning, how to change it from the inside while respecting the rhythm of each person who lives there. It is the same thing in a family, if we want to solve conflicts, leaving is not a solution, we should rather discuss, find solutions together to move forward with each one making efforts.

So if you want to change the world... Change yourself first... And you will see that your positive efforts will also one day inspire others. If you overcome problems or difficulties, it may one day become an example for the people around you. You will speak about it with more wisdom, experience, and through your experience you will be able to help others one day if you wish.

You will even change the way you work, talk to your family, your colleagues... This will create questions around you, they will ask you how you manage to have such energy... And you will be able to tell them that you are working on yourself, in all humility and sincerity... and they may even tell you one day about one of their dreams, because they will feel that you could provide them with answers... And that is when you will understand that in order to change the world, each one of us can make an effort...

5 - Deep down you know that there is no coincidence

Every time you look at the clock, you see that it says 11:11 or 7:07. It often happens that you think of someone and they call you a few moments later. Sometimes you feel connected to your surroundings and "feel" things before they happen. It is a fact: you are developing one of your spiritual powers.

This is called clairsentience, the ability to feel things around you with a sensitivity that goes beyond your senses. And this is one of the first signs that a person is spiritual. Science is showing more and more that everything in the Universe is connected, linked in some way, and that events that seem at first sight to be distant can have a common meaning, a metaphysical link...

We can compare the Universe to a big living computer, where everything is calculated, precisely organized so that certain events occur. And when we work on ourselves, when we meditate, when we study our dreams, we are able to "enter" into this framework, into this rhythm of Life, which always brings us exactly what we need.

"The universe is a living computer where everything is organized."

But do you think this way when you walk through dog poop? Do you think this way when you miss your bus before an important meeting? Do you think that there is no coincidence when you are outside without an umbrella and a heavy rain soaks you from head to toe?

Everything has a reason for being in life. Parfois, on ne comprend pas pourquoi sur le moment mĂȘme, mais chaque situation, chaque difficultĂ© ou chaque Ă©vĂ©nement a une signification profonde pour notre Ă©volution. MĂȘme les “petits” Ă©vĂ©nements ont en rĂ©alitĂ© une place importante dans notre vie. Le simple fait d’aller aux toilettes peut ĂȘtre vu comme un geste banal, ou une purification profonde et dimensionnĂ©e
 Respirer aussi, on le fait tous inconsciemment, mais quand on prend une bonne bouffĂ©e d’oxygĂšne en conscience, qu’est-ce que ça fait du bien ! Sens-toi bien Ă  l’aise de respirer profondĂ©ment si tu lis ces lignes, je suis sĂ»r que ça va te faire du bien 🙂

Alors continue Ă  observer la vie, la ressentir, voir chaque chose qui t’arrive sous un angle d’évolution, de comprĂ©hension. Et avec le langage symbolique, mĂȘme un caca de chien peut prendre un sens trĂšs profond et Ă©ducationnel
 🙂 Car quand on comprend le sens de ce qui nous arrive, on ne “subit” plus la vie ou les Ă©vĂ©nements douloureux ; on intĂšgre leur sens Ă©ducationnel, et on n’est plus jamais perdus ou dans l’incomprĂ©hension
 On a une guidance profonde qui nous permet de s’y retrouver dans les moments de doutes


So if sometimes you doubt your way... Ask for dreams... Ask for signs... And you will see that Heaven and the Universe will help you... Not always in the way you think, but in the best way to make you evolve... Because now you are spiritual... You see life differently...

So, are you ready to change?

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Fighting evil is a concept that we all have deeply embedded in us. It is a way of looking at life, of looking at trials that has always been instilled in us. Even in some religions, for centuries, the notion of Good has always been opposed to that of Evil. In our school textbooks, we study wars, we relive them through films but also concretely, in current events in certain countries of the world and in new forms specific to the modern context and issues. Beyond the collective scale, it is also in the more intimate sphere that we can be encouraged to "fight" in the face of adversity, sometimes against our own family, our parents, etc. However, fighting evil is not a good idea. Whether it is by survival, by revenge, by rejection, this way of seeing life limits us, locks us in repetitive and hurtful dynamics for ourselves. Here is an article that helps us understand why this attitude is limiting and how to change it without endorsing or validating negative dynamics.

Fighting: The reinforcement of our own negativity

Negativity, whether it is lived through an external or internal experience (voices in our head, intrusive thoughts, etc.) will bring into play unconscious memories that resonate more or less strongly with this negativity. The fight against this negativity will have the effect of reinforcing the evil that we carry in our unconscious memories. The more we fight, the more we reject, and the more the dynamics that disturb us come back into our life under different forms and will even increase with time.

In a concrete situation, by choosing to fight to resolve a situation through physical violence rather than calling the police, we will necessarily allow evil to reproduce itself, feeding its negative aspects. Violence attracts violence, because we act exactly like the thing that bothers us, we allow the evil to feed on our own attitude, which reinforces it.

In the intellectual sphere, at the level of our thoughts and intentions, the functioning is the same. At work, if we metaphysically fight our colleagues because we can't stand their criticism, their habitual backbiting, we will feed their negative aspects, and this will continue to reproduce itself schematically and perpetually. We will always hear more criticism, and we will always be asked to enter this dynamic.

True courage is to transform oneself

It's the same thing when you hear people with illnesses "fighting" for recovery or "fighting" their illness. It gives an impression of strength, of courage, and it's true that courage is needed, but not in fighting... it's in accepting, understanding, transforming. And that requires a lot of courage. Because evil is a messenger that wants to tell us something, to make us change our habits, our view of a situation, of a person. Evil speaks to us when we know how to analyze and understand it. And to transform ourselves in the face of the evil that happens to us, to question ourselves, to see what we have to improve and to accept to change, that is true courage.

Fighting evil is an easy solution, if you will, because it is considering that what is negative, bad is outside, that it is not "oneself". This way, we don't have to change, to question ourselves. It is a form of protection against change and improvement. Fighting evil is basically fighting yourself. Fighting what life puts in our way to evolve.

But how can we accept evil without trivializing it, how can we find the right affirmation? This requires understanding. We are always afraid, running away or rejecting what we do not understand in depth. No matter what we fight, it will always come back to us, because Heaven presents us with our negative aspects in order to identify them in ourselves and be able to transform them.


Understanding through the Law of Resonance

Every day, we are confronted with many situations that disturb us, sometimes more or less intensely, to the point of profoundly revolting us depending on the type of words or actions we witness.

The Law of Resonance expresses a simple principle: we attract and we resonate with what we are, in the positive as in the negative, in our qualities as in our defects. It is a scientific fact that elements of the same vibratory frequency vibrate together.

Through the Law of Resonance, we understand that all the evil we see is actually there to allow us to learn from ourselves, to transcend it by developing our qualities. Evil is educational, that is an absolute fact. It exists only to allow us to become aware of hidden parts of ourselves and to develop qualities. Evil is at the service of Good...

To take the example of the co-workers who are critical on a daily basis, through the application of the Law of Resonance, we wonder when we can be critical of ourselves, or of others sometimes. This is what happens when we are internally boiling because we hear our colleague criticizing, complaining for long hours. Inwardly, we ourselves are criticizing and complaining about our colleague, we reproduce the same vibratory frequency. Or, if we don't criticize him/her at the time, it resonates with parts of ourselves that may have criticized in the past and are still lodged in our unconscious, waiting to be cleansed.

Using resonance to learn and grow

We live situations in accordance with who we are deeply, with what we have to learn to evolve towards the best of ourselves. When we understand this in depth, we use each of these "disturbing" situations to come back to ourselves, to identify the negative in us, and we transform it. Thus, we evolve in respect of our values and in respect of the rhythm of evolution of others. And finally, our consciousness changes positively, and our environment too, in accordance with ourselves, our vibrations, our qualities, and our flaws in transformation.

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Did you know that all dreams have a meaning? Beyond these images that we receive at night, there is a code, a language, that we can all learn to decode, to help us better understand ourselves in our daily lives. In this lecture, presented by the Professors and Assistant Professors of the UCM Teaching and Research Center, we will discover the secrets of the symbolic language present in dreams, but also in our concrete reality. 

Did you know that all dreams have a meaning? Beyond these images that we receive at night, there is a code, a language, that we can all learn to decode, to help us better understand ourselves in our daily lives. In this conference, presented by the Professors and Assistant Professors of the UCM Teaching and Research Center, we will discover the secrets of the symbolic language present in dreams, but also in our concrete reality. 

We also present the DSSI Training (Dream Interpretation, Signs, Symbols), a unique program for learning to interpret dreams on a daily basis, with weekly follow-up in an online portal. This training represents the world reference in the field of dream interpretation, and our research is followed by psychologists, doctors, psychiatrists and therapists around the world.

When we understand the Symbolic Language, we enter a new reality: we understand the symbols that our dreams present to us every night, but we can also decode the symbols present in our daily lives. In fact, everything we experience during the day can be analyzed as a dream. Thus, when we study the Symbolic Language, we can not only understand ourselves better from the inside, but also learn to decode our external life with a new dimension...

In this conference, discover 14 exceptional sharings on various and multi-dimensional topics, presented by experts of the Symbolic language and the interpretation of dreams. Enter the heart of the Knowledge of dreams and symbols, with these inspiring and instructive real-life testimonies...

Conference Chapters:

0:00 – Introduction by Kaya
3:15 – Kaya | Presentation of the DSSI Training
14:41 – Anthony | This code that changes everything
21:38 – Kasara | I still dream about my ex
28:15 – Patrick | You don't choose a job by chance
35:39 – Regine | Water Restriction and Emotions
41:53Kaya | UCM Center Research
45:30Eloi | A dressed cat
50:03Sophie | Yoga that communicates
55:02Geoffrey | A dream to know how to intervene
1:02:33Thomas | Dreams are concrete
1:06:26Christiane | Sunflowers turned towards the light
1:15:25Kaya | Study your dreams
1:28:10Thibaut | Be a good listener
1:33:36Claire | Premonition
1:37:37Alexis | Secret Conversation
1:42:42Emeline | The Butterfly Child
1:47:03Kaya | Conclusion & Credits

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