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A volcano suddenly erupts; a tsunami that sweeps away everything in its path, or a bomb that explodes... What would it mean if we saw these destructive symbols in a dream? It would be a very intense nightmare. But what could this nightmare tell us about our emotional state? Hmm!!! You can probably guess a little bit!!! It would not augur a quiet day of rest...

Intense dreams

What would it mean to dream of a volcanic eruption, an exploding bomb, or a tsunami that sweeps away everything in its path?
Could it be that I am holding back emotions that can no longer be contained?
Could these symbols materialize in real life... And what can be done to prevent this from happening?

The manifestation of emotions

Emotions are powerful in both positive and negative ways. Sometimes it seems as if they could sweep away everything in their path like an impetuous torrent, without being able to stop them. They could make us lose control of ourselves, like a tsunami, with all the consequences that this implies. For example, anger can turn into violence; joy and spontaneity can lead us to be too exuberant at times.

We could therefore be afraid of the extent of our emotions because we know only too well their power and, as a result, we will also be afraid of those of others. We can take as an example the reactions of some people in a tense social context, such as a demonstration which degenerates, where even a person with no history of violence may engage in violent behavior that they have never exhibited before. This is the "I don't know what came over me... I picked up a rock and threw it at a window to break it..." It's a very well-known phenomenon that the influence of a group, a crowd, the collective, can have on an individual and lead them down a path they might not have gone down on their own.

So why is it sometimes difficult to express your emotions?

This is why some people will systematically avoid any type of gathering, places where there will be a lot of people, because they fear the powerful emotional reactions of the crowds and they will avoid confronting them, also because they fear their own reactions. We have already seen too much, for example in soccer stadiums, violence between fans that creates uncontrolled crowd movements causing many victims. Emotion generates an impulse, that is to say the passage to action when the memories emerge, or when the needs become uncontrollable.

When we act irrationally, on a "whim" or a "whim", we connect to all the memories where we lived a situation that we hated, repressed, or where we were afraid, afraid for ourselves or for the other person... In short, a situation where we felt potentially in danger... and the emotions will come to blur our reason, our common sense. We often use expressions like "Let's not get carried away" or "Let's keep a cool head" to symbolize the right attitude to adopt in order not to be trapped by the emotional intensity.

Why shouldn't we repress our emotions?

The fact of repressing one's emotions can work for a while, but the deep nature of emotions is meant to be expressed. So one day or another, the accumulated pressure makes the dam (or other system put in place to retain emotions) break, and then we will experience consequences in our body, our mind, because this will be their only way out ... We could become depressed, have physiological or psychological manifestations, develop diseases, etc. ... Hence the importance of learning to manage our emotions and not to create emotional restraints.

To be able to act accordingly, it is important to discern how we feel. To do this, you must know how to listen to your emotions without repressing them. Thus, we will be able to reconnect deeply with ourselves and find our capacity to interact intelligently, to be in empathy with others, far from the cold indifference that can sometimes develop when emotions are repressed for a long time, where we gradually die out instead of feeling alive; because emotions are simply life, and repressing emotions is denying it.

Recognizing one's emotions means being emotionally intelligent, that is, being able to "express, understand and manage one's own emotions and to perceive and interpret those of others". Emotional intelligence is an essential component of mental health. It plays a very important role in self-awareness and the qualitý of relationships with others.

The power of emotions

We are lucky to be able to feel, express and live our emotions. They allow us to adapt, to preserve ourselves, to make choices. They influence our behavior. If we knew how to naturally welcome our emotions and recognize those of others, we would have far fewer problems in our relationships and in society in general.

Our emotional energies are an unlimited source of power, they are the engine of our evolution. Knowing how to manage them means being able to use their tremendous potential to set ourselves in motion, to motivate, to inspire, to create... in short, to evolve.

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-Hi, how are you?
-Yeah, great, except for this weird dream I had last night. It left me with a weird feeling when I got up.
-Okay, what was your dream?
-Oh, it was intense. I dreamed that our house was completely ravaged by a huge flood and our dog drowned.
-Oh yes! Still! But hey... The good news is that it's just a dream! Don't worry about it; your dog is alive and well, and your house is fine! Come on, let's go have a good coffee...

The pre-manufactured answer, a blow to the first domino

How many times have you heard in a conversation, in a movie or even in a hallway conversation that a dream is "just a dream"?

What if this kind of pre-manufactured answer, said in semi-automatic mode to reassure the other person (and quickly change the subject because it becomes uncomfortable) was that ultimately, we struck the first blow and triggered a real domino effect under the surface? The kind that alters life opportunities or even worse, pushes the dust deeper under the carpet?

 

The keystone: perceiving beyond our senses

If a dream, no matter which one, was in fact the keystone to be identified and thus the cascading collapses could be changed, the wounds healed and the hopes founded, would it still be "just a dream"? Would you be willing to look beyond the symbols and to understand the code that governs this fantastic and sometimes even terrifying universe?

It is hard at first, as a human being, to be interested in an intangible world, which seems 100% virtual and without any visible relation of cause and effect. Then, on the other hand, the technology and science that is being developed is grandiose, flourishing with brilliant and avant-garde ideas, even touching the boundaries of the physical and metaphysical worlds. Pushing the limits to go from an idea, a dream, to a reality.

The possibilities and intelligence are there more than ever, but why then are our dreams perceived as "just a dream"? When an idea, just as intangible as a dream, can give birth to a technological revolution and change the quality of life of humanity.

Answering "it's just a dream" would become, in a way, an attempt to reassure ourselves about something that our senses are not yet able to identify and understand. We can see to what extent our societies tend to value the external world in relation to success, to personal accomplishment and, simultaneously, all our main senses are turned towards this environment to identify it, to understand it and ultimately to survive.

Thus, we see, we taste, we smell, we touch and we hear. It's simple, innate, and it's effective. It works without us even thinking about it. We then naturally maintain ourselves in a mode of action and reaction that supports a certain sense of seeking functionality of things, clarity and advancement.

These perceptions are undoubtedly invaluable. They create the harmony to manifest well. Remove one of them and a handicap appears. Each of these extraordinary sensors makes us into real computers, managing an extraordinary amount of information in just a few seconds.

But, in the long run, this innate nature could also become an operating bias if not taken further. Something as extraordinary as our senses could, by omission and lack of will, become a real limitation for our evolution. If we see the same roads, if we hear the same atmospheres, if we smell and taste the same ingredients and if we touch the same sensation, then, maybe in the end we live in closed circuit… ?

 

Our Source Code, the logs of consciousness

There is the external world, the one that our senses have always known, and there is the internal world, the one that requires us to do an update of our senses. The latter continuously transmits an influx of information in resonance with what is perceived from the outside. In all situations and discussions, we inevitably judge, evaluate, are happy, content or even angry, impatient or sad. We may envy, begrudge or even reject, simply because of what we feel inside, within us, and by the echo transmitted from our senses.

Finally, we can say that we make decisions about invisible things. Things that cannot be seen, touched, heard or tasted. That's where it gets really interesting, that's where you can say that metaphysics really influences the physics of things.

Thus, we can say of this world - which animates the life in us, programs the first lines of our thoughts, develops our emotions and then triggers our behaviors - that it "codes" who we are, our personality, it's our Source Code. Where we have an advantage is that, unlike in the real world, we don't need to be a senior developer to go and look at the logs (registers displaying information about the good or bad functioning of a code → very useful) of our consciousness.

This code is installed in us, which can create slowdowns as well as accelerations, wow ???? as well as ARGH!!!????, and ultimately it's up to us to choose whether we decide to update it or not. To know if we want to stay on a version of the code that can limit our possibilities, or multiply them by adding knowledge to our perceptions.

The dreamverse, the metaverse that opens the night

Have you ever heard of the metaverse? These 100% fictional and multi-dimensional universes in full expansion, where you can own a piece of land, attend a play or even go shopping, are the perfect metaphor for dreams. They are virtual and yet connected to reality, they are there and yet if you don't care about them they continue to exist.

You can see all kinds of colors (in every sense of the word) and everyone can move around with an avatar that represents them. That means if you decide to be a lion with a DJ helmet and a jet pack on your back, you can do it.

In short, I won't go into details because it is not the purpose of this article, but take a look around, get information and you will see that we are at the borders of the world of dreams, with the pluses and minuses that this implies, of course.

So, when we dream at night, we visit our "dreamverse", that is to say the universe of our dreams, the one which we represents by the symbolism that is there. Indeed, each symbol that we see, no matter how it looks, becomes a sort of holographic projection of who we are and a certain percentage of our personality.

In fact, if we dream about a car whose brakes don't work, a cat that is not happy, our father who hugs us or a colleague who helps us, all these represent strengths and weaknesses that we carry within us.

When we have beautiful dreams, we should see them as an encouragement to everything we do constructively in our lives and to continue to manifest ourselves well with others. We can say that it is a positive resonance towards our senses.

However, because of this aforementioned predisposition to go outward, there is often an unconscious or repressed buildup that leads more to receiving less pleasant dreams or even nightmares. One of the keys I invite you to try is to see them more as a warning signal on your dashboard when you are driving. You only stop if it's the red light! So, most of the time you are able to stay operational while being aware of the parameters that need to be corrected.

 

Identifying is fundamental and universal

Any dream remains important to identify in order to be able to analyze it and avoid the famous domino effect. We know that the key to any problem resolution, whether in management, aeronautics or web development, is the quality of the identification. The more accurate and precise our identification is, the better we will be able to apply a relevant and adequate solution in reaction, without dramatizing or exaggerating the magnitude of the problem in question.

If you want to begin this identification process yourself, here are some key points to help you. No matter if you are a novice or an expert in dream analysis, these steps are fundamental and it is always a good thing!

First steps of identification

  • Is it a positive or negative dream?
  • Are the symbols in the right place?example: if you dream of a camel in your living room, it is not in the right place; it will create more problems than benefits)
  • What do the people I see in my dreams represent?You must estimate the qualities and weaknesses that you believe these people represent)
  • Did the dream scenario resolve itself in a positive way or not?
  • Is it night or day? (night = unconscious dynamics; day = active dynamics)

 

If we identify that the dream is negative, it indicates forces (thoughts, emotions, behaviors) that need to be reprogrammed and transformed to avoid an increase in problems in this area. In the same way, in computer science, if a bug appears and is not solved, it tends to amplify itself and affect other areas of use. In other words, the sooner the better!

"Okay, but the antidote is what?"  You will tell me. In fact, the resolution of a situation perceived in the dream will depend on your ability to monitor these forces identified in the dream. To put it simply, if you have identified impatience because of the symbol of your brother-in-law, George, present in the dream, then you need to keep a closer eye on this fragment of your behavior, to prevent it from playing tricks on you in your day-to-day exchanges and projects.

Your log file tells you that you have a line of code like "George" that could cause you to be overly impatient or impulsive right now if a situation X or Y were to resonate with that line. So the more you are able to do global and background self-monitoring, (be careful, don't go extreme with this either! Practice makes things easier with time and much less robotic than when you start to be alert to those forces within you), the easier it becomes to identify the triggering moment of your inner George and to catch up.

But be careful! Your real brother-in-law, George, in real life, has nothing to do with your dream. In fact, he becomes a symbol that your consciousness knows to illustrate certain angles of your personality. So don't rush to the phone to talk to him about the dream where he was impatient, you'll add another problem in the process ???? Finally, George also has extraordinary qualities and surely in another dream you will also discover his magnificent qualities in yourself.

 

The potential impact: if everyone analyzed their dreams

By communicating with different CEOs, leaders and managers in this world, or just by being an actor observing the exchanges, one can quickly assess that the biggest source of difficulties at the heart of work and getting things done is human behavior.

The machine, the computer, does not complain, does not create gossip or hallway discussions. It does not aspire to the position of the other, nor does it dominate its employees or jealously guard its boss. If we bring more knowledge to solve the difficulties arising from the individual to the heart of a social and collective movement, we can really bring a new step in terms of work and life qualities.

In business, when you talk to Human Resources, you can very quickly see the magnitude of the potential damage caused by poor decisions based on impatience and impulsiveness (and more!). So many dominoes have been toppled by inner forces when you think about it...

Now imagine a work environment where everyone would arrive in the morning having received their own logs of their strengths and weaknesses, aspects potentially harmful to the relationship. Everyone having in mind their own "bug" to watch out for to avoid more problems.

The quality would literally be enhanced because everyone would have an interest in doing things right, while coming back to themselves according to their own resonances. Of course, this does not mean that everything would be perfect and rosy, but a new stage would be established without a doubt. And since all change takes time, if everyone starts with themselves, one dream at a time, we can say that one day, one dream, is no longer "just a dream".

 

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La plupart des personnes qui pensent à un Ange gardien, imaginent un être avec de grandes ailes venu du Ciel pour veiller à notre bien-être, en nous protégeant avec bienveillance et amour dans notre quotidien. Ils n’ont pas tort, sauf que les ailes de l’Ange gardien sont à comprendre en termes de symbole, dans une dimension représentant les rêves, les pouvoirs de la conscience et de l’inconscient, en termes d’état de conscience et de potentiel présents à l'intérieur de nous-même.

What is a Ange gardien ? It is above all an ancient symbol that represents the state of consciousness in which Man finds himself once his distortions have been transcended, thanks to the cleansing of his unconscious memories.

Helping others is a divine act

The human being then lives in the Qualities, with his "wings", a newfound freedom, a state of lightness through his ability to travel in the multi-dimensions of his consciousness, of the Universe, notably through his dreams. And there, at that moment, yes he can become an angel guardian, help others in dreams, in parallel dimensions, and even via meditation.

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The 72 Angels

Il existe 72 Anges ou États de Conscience divins que l’on peut invoquer pour y arriver, devenir soi-même un Ange gardien ; concentrant ainsi en soi un rayon de Qualités spécifiques, un Talent, une Connaissance, un Amour élevé, une Sagesse profonde. L’être humain existe en quelque sorte pour devenir un Ange gardien, un être spirituel qui peut aider, soutenir, inspirer, soigner, guérir, etc.

Pour y arriver, il doit développer en lui ses talents, ses pouvoirs altruistes, et apprendre à manifester son plein potentiel divin. À chaque qualité angélique correspond une distorsion humaine, un opposé, un défaut, un comportement créé par l’Homme à travers son expérimentation qui parfois peut être ignorante, négative, et qui l’amène à agir de façon ordinaire ou malsaine dans sa vie, ses émotions et ses actions.

En prenant l’exemple avec l’Ange Caliel n°18, on peut voir que sa Qualité première, que l’Énergie qui le caractérise principalement est celle de la Vérité. Donc si un être devient un avocat, un policier qui est juste, ou une personne qui applique pour soi-même et ses proches, la justice, la vérité, de façon honnête, en donnant de bons conseils vrais, éclairés, à ce moment elle devient un ange gardien par son rayonnement et ce qu’elle est.

Bien sûr, l’État de Conscience Angélique appliquée est à ce moment hors du commun, une justice, une vérité, des plus hauts niveaux pour soi et pour les autres. La dimension angélique est l’ultime réalisation de soi. Lorsqu’on l’atteint, elle se présente non pas uniquement dans la réalité via notre caractère et nos agissements, mais aussi dans les rêves. On peut ainsi apprendre en rêve, autant que dans la réalité, ce qu’est la justice divine.

And this is the objective to be reached by working with les 72 Anges : devenir une meilleure personne, un Ange gardien soi-même.

Cela est bien sûr un très grand parcours qui est représenté dans plusieurs traditions comme le symbol of Enlightenment, the state of awakening, spiritual and mystical fulfillment.

Learning to become better

L’être humain apprend tout au long de sa vie, et bien au-delà, pour atteindre cet ultime état d’être, et ainsi expérimente, cherche, s’améliore chaque jour pour y arriver. Mais quand l’être humain expérimente de façon négative cet état de conscience angélique de Vérité, de justice, il crée la distorsion humaine du mensonge, de l’injustice, de la malhonnêteté, et ainsi engendre tout de sortes de problèmes dans sa vie pour apprendre les Qualités divines, les plus haut niveaux d’existence et de spiritualité.

La Vérité, la justice, l’application de l’intégration des Qualités de the Angel 18 Caliel, peuvent aussi être vécues de façon diverses et subtiles ; autant au plan qualitatif qu’au plan de la distorsion. Par exemple, est-ce que j’ai dit la vérité quand cette personne m’a demandé si je trouvais son vêtement joli, ou bien ai-je laissé un commentaire surpositif sur sa photo Facebook par crainte de perdre son amitié ? Est-ce que je dis aimer mon travail avec sincérité, ou bien est-ce que je me motive ainsi pour me rassurer, en maquillant mes insécurités ? Parfois, un mensonge se manifeste de façon très subtile et nous enseigne des modes de fonctionnements inconscients qui peuvent influencer l’ensemble de qui nous sommes.

what is a guardian angel?

Do the mantra with the name of an Angel

By invoking the Angel, we transform these attitudes that are detrimental to us, we become aware of them in our dreams and through our realities, and we gradually regain our full positive potential through the development of our qualities and our spiritual, evolved dimension.

Plus on étudie la conscience, plus on découvre nos mémoires inconscientes via nos rêves, plus on réalise que les rêves sont des mondes de Vérité, d’évolution, de transformation, si on les utilise et les analyse en profondeur.

A Quality essential to our evolution... a life plan in itself ????

Our 3 birth angels

À notre naissance, des objectifs ou qualités sont programmés en nous afin que nous puissions les devenir, les appliquer, apprendre d’elles. Les États de Conscience angéliques doivent aussi être vus comme en lien avec notre plan de vie. Ainsi, symboliquement nous avons 3 birth angels ou Anges-Gardiens, qui sont des objectifs à atteindre et qui engendreront de multiples situations pour comprendre et nous amener à devenir les Qualités Divines et ainsi devenir soi-même un jour un être spirituel, un ange gardien.

Les 3 Anges reliés à notre date de naissance doivent être vus de façon générale, car nous avons en nous également tous les 72 Anges en termes de conscience, de structures qualitatives, faisant partie de nous, de qui nous sommes, et nous reliant à la Conscience Universelle.

Parfois nos Anges de naissance peuvent aussi être la représentation de ce que nous devons améliorer en nous-mêmes dans cette vie ; Ils peuvent être le positif à développer pour transformer nos faiblesses, nos principales distorsions humaines, que nous avons à rectifier dans notre vie, via le développement des Qualités pures qui leur correspondent.

It is recommended to see our 3 birth Angels Gardiens de naissance, et celui des autres, comme représentant les grandes lignes de notre personnalité, de nos façons de penser, de ressentir et d’agir quotidiennement. Il est fascinant de connaitre ses Anges de naissance ; les 72 Anges sont une connaissance très ancienne et représentent un ensemble de Qualités, de Talents, que nous devons développer progressivement et qui sont aussi interconnectés, interfusionnés, et non divisés.

We can thus understand that in the Work (Angel 36 Menadel), there is Motivation (Angel 45 Sealiah). The two Qualities or Fields of Consciousness, are presented individually but are simultaneously One; hence the understanding of what is the Universal Consciousness.

Our path is unique

Each human being is unique, with qualities and defects that characterize him or her, nous le constatons tous avec nos proches, notre entourage : On le perçoit par exemple avec notre ami qui est très sociable, un excellent communicant, qui travaille peut-être même dans le domaine, mais avec une attitude extravagante à toujours en faire trop pour attirer l’attention sur lui. Ou bien avec un conjoint très intelligent, à l’aise dans les sciences depuis toujours, qui solutionne les situations et conceptualise avec une logique brillante, et en même temps qui a tendance à être trop compliqué, dans le détail, à être sec et rigide dans sa façon de faire.

These specificities are due to our unconscious baggage, which is specific to each of us, and which we can see in a global way through our birth Angels and the objectives represented by the 72 Angels.

Why 3 levels of manifestation?

Car ils correspondent à chaque plan de notre être :

  • The physical plane, which corresponds to our concrete actions, how we manifest ourselves on a daily basis, how we act.
  • The emotional plane, which corresponds to our emotions, how we feel, our feelings.
  • The intellectual plane, which corresponds to our thoughts, our mind, our concepts.

Vous pouvez découvrir les Anges selon leur plan de manifestation avec les Calendriers angéliques des 72 Anges

Nos Anges gardiens (ou de naissance) représentent qui nous sommes dans les grandes lignes, le cadre principal, le plan de ce que nous avons à développer pour nous manifester de la plus belle et juste des façons, en accord profondément avec nous-même dans notre vie.

To become aware of our goal of becoming a guardian angel is to better understand the meaning of life... The improvements to be made in our personality, our aspirations, our motivations, and more deeply, in our Life plan.

To find out which are your 3 birth angels (our 3 Guardian Angels), you can go to the page Find your birth angels.

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Life is constantly in motion, and never stops, like a river flowing endlessly... But that doesn't mean we can't take a moment to appreciate the past. To remember good times, as well as ordeals that made us evolve. So take a step back, and look at your life. See how much you've accomplished and how much you've learned. And be grateful for each moment, each sign and each dream that guide you on you. For they are all part of your story, and build who you are becoming.

We are happy to share a poem passed on by a student of the IRSS Formation, a beautiful inspiration that leads us to rethink the role of time in our evolution... 

Time,

For long I defined you in hours, in months, in years
Perhaps in the end to try to master you
I counted you, calculated you, quantified you, to satisfy myself
Before, I believed you only linear.

Time of the past,

Too often nostalgic for you
You are much more than a memory, you are part of me
In ignorance, I often mourned you
But you, Past, you are still present so that I can know myself, study myself and transcend you.

Time of the present,

I know, Time of the past influences you inside me
You go by too fast or too slow, you pull me sometimes
I don't always live you consciously enough
But I want to do my best to live you now.

Time of the future

You have sometimes created anguish for me
You are the past and present time that intertwine
You are finally the most beautiful fruit of my unconscious and my present
To form a program that will lead me to live more consciously and Angelically one day.

Time of the past, present and future,

You all live inside me, at every moment
Metaphysically
I see you in my dreams
You never stop, nor truce.

Multidimensional time,

Time of the past, you are thought to be gone
Time of the future, you are thought to be still undefined
And yet, in the shadow and the light, like an interconnection, you interact
In every moment, through my emotions, my actions and my thoughts.

But you, Time,

Finally, what is the point of defining your speed
You have so much more subtlety and wisdom
You are simply here, a part of me... to know myself better?
Are you here for learning, understanding, transcending and finally being reborn?
Can I conclude that you are finally timeless, because you are so multidimensional?

 

A student from the DSSI training

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We all dream every night, whether we remember it or not... And very often, these dreams can seem more real than reality... What is the meaning of these mysterious images that come to us during the night? What message do they have for us? And if they had something to tell us... Revelations to pass on to us to improve our lives...

Learn to interpret your dreams with the DSSI Training

The UCM Teaching and Research Center is pleased to present this free online discovery event, which brings deep and advanced understandings on the interpretation of dreams and signs that we may receive in our daily lives.
For over 20 years, our trainings are followed by doctors, psychologists, nurses, therapists, teachers, business people, housewives and retirees from many countries, and our team of Symbolic Language experts has analyzed over 100,000 dreams and student papers from a wide range of cultures and social backgrounds, and is now sharing this knowledge through unique training courses.

Research on more than 50,000 analyzed dreams

Based on the research work of Professors Kaya and Christiane Muller, in 2013 we developed the DSSI Training (Interpretation of Dreams - Signs - Symbols), via an in-depth program allowing each person to learn to analyze his or her own dreams, but also to become an accredited expert by our Teaching and Research Center.

6 hours of free workshops and conferences, presented in French

12 unique workshops presented by experts in Symbolic language from several countries
(Canada - France - Switzerland - Belgium)

The IRSS Training presented at this event is an international 100% online training course, with assignments reviewed by an instructor each week.

Detailed presentation of the DSSI training program

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Spirituality experienced in the right way is a source of harmony, well-being, discovery and deep understanding of oneself and the universe.

Sometimes, at the beginning of the path, it happens that as they deepen their spirituality, their meditations and their reflections, some people become hard on themselves... They may even become too extreme in their principles and values; they may become prickly, critical of themselves or others, or even intolerant when they feel, for example, in adversity or with some who oppose their worldview...

But why? In this article, we present the main unconscious memories that influence us in our path, in our spirituality, which can make us hard, rigid with ourselves or others ... We will discover that it is not spirituality in itself that leads to becoming extreme, but our unconscious memories that deeply influence our way of walking on this spiritual path...

And yet, what does it mean to be spiritual?

Contrary to what most people think, being spiritual is not simply praying or practicing a particular ritual; being spiritual is being qualitative in everything we do... Because spirituality is a path of evolution, of improvement that can welcome all those who wish to know themselves and better understand the deep meaning of life, and this, whatever the tradition, religion, etc.

Even if many will marry religion & spirituality together, being spiritual is not dependent on a religious practice, on the contrary, it is a philosophy, a way of living in connection with the multiple dimensions of life. It is also a search for a deeper understanding of what is lived... A quest for meaning in the "commute-work-sleep"... A way to try to understand life and to communicate more deeply with it, with oneself...

And to be spiritual, in reality, is to wish to become the best version of oneself, to seek to develop qualities of life that generate happiness on all levels...

Everyone is looking for happiness... and in one way or another everyone is spiritual, without even knowing it sometimes... A man who helps selflessly is spiritual, a child who dances in the rain is spiritual... A sick person who smiles at life is spiritual... We all have our moments of depth and we all have the ability to connect to a force greater than ourselves...

Moreover, when medicine, for example, is unable to respond to the ills experienced, many people turn to spirituality in order to find a deep cause for their inner or outer discomfort... And you have to know that spirituality can really bring answers, and yes, much more precise and logical answers than you may think, but for that you really have to find a modern and balanced spiritual Teaching... and above all seek answers with discernment, so as not to enter into extremism that destroys instead of helping us to build...

Perfectionism and high ideals

Perfectionism is an essence that in its positive aspect helps us to improve ourselves, to surpass ourselves in order to reach the best of ourselves... But sometimes perfectionism can also dampen our morale, and make us dry, too analytical, too square, dissatisfied...

Our emotional plan can then get stuck and create deep frustrations if we are not able to recognize our efforts, to congratulate ourselves for the steps we take... And to love life in the perfection of its imperfections...

This perfectionism can affect our spiritual aspirations. Having ideals, spiritual values in our concepts is something positive, because it allows us to follow our dreams during our journey, and thus keep our intention focused on why we are working on ourselves, on what we wish to achieve and integrate as qualities, as virtues. The strength of intention can lead to the manifestation of our greatest aspirations...

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However, high ideals can, combined with certain weaknesses, lead us to become extreme. When our goals are too big, when we want to reach the top When our ego starts to play tricks on us... Because we need certain qualities in parallel to reach these high peaks in a fair way, without hurting ourselves but on the contrary, strengthening ourselves.

The lack of love

We are spiritual when we do everything well to manifest ourselves in consciousness, with the will to always do our best. Spirituality is putting knowledge in everything we do. We observe ourselves and work to transform our distortions, our weaknesses, where we act, feel or think in a way we know is wrong.

When we are on this path but we lack kindness towards ourselves, love, it can create great discrepancies... Like a genius who becomes too much in his head and not enough in his heart...

Nous cherchons à incarner nos valeurs en manquant de douceur, de compréhension, de bienveillance, ce qui peut nous blesser et dans le même temps nous empêcher d’évoluer, car chercher à appliquer la connaissance sans amour ça ne fonctionne pas… Cette attitude crée des blocages, nous limite… Elle nous rend plus conceptuel que concret, nous amène de la frustration… On se retrouve alors dans un cercle vicieux de dureté, d’exigence, à analyser notre environnement de façon desséchante… Et nous pouvons y perdre beaucoup d’énergie…

Life is a school, and we must accompany ourselves with the same love we would offer to a child: When he wants to learn something, to improve somewhere and he gets discouraged, cries, or becomes hard on himself, we talk to him with kindness, we comfort him... And this love gives him the will to start again in a better way to reach his dreams, he can then regenerate himself quite naturally and succeed...

To really learn, we must love...

Dans notre spiritualité c’est le même processus, nous devons réapprendre à nous aimer, à nous complimenter en relevant nos qualités, en reconnaissant là où nous avons bien agi dans notre journée, etc… Cela fait partie du cheminement pour que nos apprentissages soient effectifs et sans extrémisme. To keep the beautiful side of perfectionism that helps us to excel, but is not too demanding or dissatisfied...

Lack of self-reflection and global vision

To become extreme towards oneself or others, it is also the sign that we lack perspective, humility and discernment.

But what is applying the return to self? It is what we do every time we take a step back from a person or a situation that affects us, to recognize that what bothers us in the other person is actually a reflection of something that bothers us in ourselves.

The other is always a mirror of oneself... In terms of percentages of conscious or unconscious memories...

Lorsque nous ne faisons pas cela, nous projetons nos propres dérangements sur l’extérieur de différentes manières : À travers des reproches, des remarques piquantes… Ou même en cherchant à influencer l’autre pour qu’il corresponde à nos idéaux, sans réaliser qu’en agissant de cette façon, nous sommes durs et parfois contrôlants… Toutes ces attitudes participent à nous rendre extrême dans notre façon de vivre notre spiritualité, et en général nous ne réalisons pas que nous agissons pareillement envers nous-même…

Reinforcing this Law of Resonance according to which we attract what we are in both positive and negative aspects allows us to stabilize ourselves, to become more solid and confident in our path. We develop detachment, while being responsible... We broaden our global vision and discover true humility.

Indeed, as we deepen our spirituality, our vision of life expands. We gradually become aware of the different memories that make up our unconscious, and the fact that our soul experiences, builds itself over lifetimes, and lifetimes... That our distortions are percentages of who we are, and that they represent, once transformed, our greatest positive, qualitative potential...

Over time we realize that the cleaning of memories is done daily with patience and kindness, and that it allows us to rise, to improve ourselves, and also to inspire our environment to transform positively...

This collective and universal vision brings a deep serenity... But it can be slowed down or influenced by a negative force that we can all experience, something that sometimes pushes us to focus on our person in a negative way, to selfishly satisfy certain needs, certain insecurities, etc...

Et certains pensent déjà avoir atteint de hauts niveaux de spiritualité, pensent être rendus au sommet, alors que le chemin ne fait que débuter… C’est ce qu’on appelle l’égo spirituel.

The spiritual ego

As we have seen, spirituality and the journey awaken forces in our unconscious that make us excel, become better and other memories that can limit us. There are percentages of memories in us, old behaviors, ways of thinking that we have encoded that do not necessarily want to improve, to develop qualities... To stay calm instead of getting aggressive... To apologize instead of dominating... Our ego is part of it, and its influence on us can become profound.

We can easily recognize when our spiritual ego influences us: We feel superior to others, we have the impression that we hold the absolute truth, that what others experience or have told us is so much less important than our own knowledge and understanding... which has the effect of inferiorizing the people with whom we communicate, and leads us either to be constantly surrounded to feed this negative force within us, or to isolate ourselves.

Motivated by the negative ego, we can then find ourselves in a distorted, twisted form of spirituality where we seek to satisfy our personal needs, to fill our insecurities generated by our attachment to matter... Much more than to evolve... We can then become prisoners of an illusion that impoverishes us over time... and that makes us lose sight of the true spiritual path...

The spiritual ego prevents one from understanding one's place in the individual and global evolutionary process. A person led by the spiritual ego will not question his own attitudes, emotions and thoughts, and will not truly apply the Law of Resonance, because when we do it with sincerity and depth, the mask of ego has no place, and we find our way and our balance between self-confidence and humility...

Solutions and balanced spirituality, without extremes

Il est normal que différentes mémoires remontent à la surface lorsque nous sommes spirituel, et c’est un véritable cadeau du Ciel à la fois, ce qui fait partie du chemin… Rencontrer nos faiblesses signifie que nous sommes prêts à les transformer et à passer à une autre étape de compréhension…

When we perceive that in some way we are extreme, we can meditate with positive mantras, such as the Angelica Mantra techniques to develop the qualities that need to be worked on when we are experiencing extremism, for example: receptivity, i.e. the ability to listen, to welcome, support, benevolence, love, indulgence, balance, etc... These qualities allow us to relearn to love ourselves truly, to find balance in our way of building ourselves, to rise, as much internally as in our way of acting...

The mantra is one of the oldest meditation techniques that exist, it dates back to the dawn of time. It is as powerful as it is simple to practice. All you have to do is repeat a word, a sacred name or a phrase that carries a deep meaning.

With the mantra, it is the intention that is most important and that must be positive to generate a positive reprogramming of the consciousness...

To work with mantras is to really bring solutions to our problems, because we become what we repeat to ourselves internally... And the more we repeat qualities to ourselves, the more we can program them in and around ourselves.

We become what we repeat to ourselves...

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