A decision with serious consequences (French version)

Sharing: A decision with serious consequences

Sharing a Mother: Our daughter (18 years old) tells us that she is two months pregnant. She is very unstable even though she has made a lot of progress. She wants to separate from her child ( January 8, 2014). We talked a lot about the value of life, respect, the consequence of her actions. She has listened well and wants to keep her baby, but her partner refuses. How to talk about abortion and the consequences in a fair way? She is not interested in dreams and does not wish to be interested in them.

Dream #1 : The luminous fir trees

Sharing the dreamer's mother: My son, 43 years old, is the father of two boys aged 13 and 7. With his wife of 13 years, they form a real beautiful family. He is a serious person, responsible and rather introspective but very wise and resourceful. He observes a lot before giving his opinion. He is also very open-minded, and for him all opportunities are good to learn and grow. Here is his dream as he wrote it to me.

Dream:  I was walking through a park and had my youngest son by the hand. My wife was behind holding our other son by the hand. We passed two large fir trees about 20 feet tall with lots of pinecones in them. The fir trees were yellow in color, a bit like sulfur.

By stopping in front of one of the fir trees, one would have said that they glittered. We approached then to see better and we noticed that finally it was the cocottes which were transforming themselves into species of big butterflies and which flew gently in the sky.

I then wanted to get closer and the closer I got, the more it hurt my eyes because it gave off a very strong golden yellow light (same color as the tree). I couldn't keep my eyes open. So I said, "wow this is super beautiful "and I woke up.

Dream #2: A newly arrived baby

Dream:  I see Marie and ask her about Sophie. She tells me that Gisėle showed her pictures of Sophie's Baby. I ask her if the Baby is cute, and she tells me, better than that, he was standing and looks like Aline and Sophie. I want to ask her if Sophie thanked me (for a baby gift I sent her), and she doesn't hear me, I don't insist.

Dreamer's info: Marie is one of my sisters in concrete reality. Her plus: very reliable, rigorous, kind and in positive life reorientation; her minus: sometimes too rigid. Sophie is one of my nieces in concrete reality and daughter of Gisèle. Her plus: coquette, kind; her minus: life principles based on matter. Gisėle is my older sister in concrete reality and Sophie's mom; her plus: kind, generous; her minus: artificial, over-values her daughters to fill in her life and relationship wounds. The baby is the little baby that my niece Sophie just had in September. Aline my niece, sister of Sophie and daughter of Gisèle; her plus: coquette, hard-working, socially kind; her minus: life principles based on matter.

Dreamer's Share: In real life, when my niece Sophie had her little baby, my sister Gisėle informed me and I mailed a gift for the little baby. Several weeks after this mailing, inwardly I felt sad that I had no news.

Then I told myself inwardly that it was right to give up waiting (a sign of gratitude) while continuing to love him. This resolution was made on a Friday, and the following Monday I received the birth announcement of the little baby. I had this dream on Friday night.

Dream #3 : Building a big hospital

Dreamer's Share: Before telling my dream, I will give you some details. Across the road from my childhood home, there was a VAST field that belonged to our neighbor, Mr. Simard. When he left to live in town, my father decided to buy his farm and this field, of course. When my father left the place, I don't know what became of this farm. This is the last part of my dream, because I forgot the beginning.

Dream: I was an adult, probably the age I am now. Standing in front of that field, I wondered what all those people were doing (I couldn't tell the number; there were several: men and women) measuring that site. I asked them. They answered me: "We will build a large hospital".