It is sometimes difficult to face a situation that does not suit us, where we do not feel comfortable, where we only want it to end, or better yet, that it has not even begun. Only when we find ourselves stuck in such an experience, what solutions do we have to get out of it honorably? What strategies will we implement to "get out of a bad situation", to stop this unpleasant feeling of being in the wrong place at the wrong time? Through this conference, we will study some examples of strategies that the human mind has developed throughout its evolution to avoid what it does not want to be confronted with, from the classic flight to much more elaborate behaviors. Then with symbolic language, we will look more deeply into the real reasons why we sometimes adopt this kind of attitude, to understand what we are really running away from, and with this new understanding, make sure to transform the old adage "Courage, let's run away..." into "Courage, let's stay..."